Tuesday, September 19, 2017

top space

The following discussion on Ladies_Who_Spank_Men@yahoogroups.com I found to be interesting, so am re-posting for readers who are not a member of this group. being honest, I did not read all the commments posted on this topic.

Re: Last Spanking Posted by: "betty keathley" our_ms_betty@yahoo.com our_ms_betty
Wed Nov 8, 2006 9:08 am (PST) Yes, Mike, you are perfectly welcome to use my post.

"Top space" does not come up often in spanking really, but it does come up in relation to more dungeony activities quite a bit (just to warn you in case you discourage discussion of the heavier activities on your blog.) I think that is because most spankos and most people who practice other activities don't see spanking as part of the larger BDSM community. There is some debate about whether it is or not, DEBATE WHICH WE WILL NOT GET INTO HERE, IS THAT CLEAR EVERYONE? but because that mindset exists people tend to mistakenly believe that what applies to heavier play does not apply to spanking and vice versa.

And as a result while the leather folk spend a great deal of time discussing things like mental dynamics, the experience of Topspace and subspace, and the reasons for it, most general spankos have never heard of it, even those who have experienced it. It is good to remember though that both parties need the adjustment time to "come down" afterwards. Ms. Betty-----


My reaction (DWCMIKE):
Since I am the husband that is spanked, I have not really thought of what my wife is thinking while she is spanking me. The one-sided conversation(lecture) of why I am being spanked takes part of my attention, and the wooden bath brush( or another instrument) captures the rest of my attention. Thus, the concept of 'topspace' is intriguing.

What is my wife thinking of while she is spanking me, and does she sometimes go into a topspace zone?

I believe that she is monitoring my reactions, monitoring the level of the spanking, and concentrating on the spanking she is administering, but that does not necessarily take up the entire intellectual capacity that any person has. Especially if this is the same bottom being spanked, that has been spanked hundreds of times before.
However, sometimes after the spanking she is ravenous for immediate sexual interaction, whereas other times we cuddle and kiss gently before progressing further, and at other times sex is not in the cards until much later that day or even the next day.

What are your reactions if you are the spanker?
If you are the spankee, does your partner sometimes go into a 'zone' The best word I can think of is 'euphoric' to attempt to describe the zone for the spanker.


The original letter was as follows: (sent to Ms. Betty)
My wife was still seated and watching me trying to dress just after she finished spanking me three or four weeks ago. As I was pulling up my underwear and trying to gently get them over my swollen ass after the spanking, I'm usually too embarrassed to look at her when I'm spanked and still bawling in front of her, it's humiliating and I generally can't look at her but this time I did and her expressions were interesting. I think that her thoughts were somewhere else; she was just spanking her crying husband as hard and as fast and plenty long enough to make sure that I was very sorry for doing what I did that was getting me spanked with her awful wooden hairbrush. I'm almost sure that she was thinking about other things as she was spanking me. As I was doing what I could to get my underwear over my spanked ass, it was as if she was saying to herself," well I'm finished here, now what's next;" I'm still dancing some in front of her holding a burning spanked ass cheek in each hand and trying my best to pull up my underwear while still sobbing from the spanking. That spanking was almost mechanical and yet properly done. She had a spanked husband standing there in front of her.
I want to ask her about it but I'm not sure what to ask. She does not like criticisms or suggestions when it comes to spanking, she knows that she knows how to do it and by the amount of frantic dancing I was doing across her lap and the dance that I did in front of her just after and holding spanked ass cheeks proved it to me.

Ms. Betty responded as follows:
You know your wife quite well and have been spanked by her often enough to know if she is giving you her full attention. I found your post interesting though because I do something similar. Often right after I've finished a spanking I seem "not quite there". I often have a very grim expression, usually a slight frown. Sometimes if he has not been spanked by me before the man I've just finished spanking thinks he's displeased me in some way. Though this is almost always far from the case.
The thing is despite outward appearances I am not ignoring the naughty boy I have just spanked. I am not thinking about my chore list or errands I must run or my waiting pile of homework. I'm not thinking about the session I just finished, either. To be honest, I'm not really thinking anything. Part of me is monitoring him very careful. I prefer whenever possible to have someone completely back to normal before they leave after a spanking. To that end, I'm watching him? Is he still crying? Are his eyes red? What's the expression on his face? Is he trembling? Are his eyes vacant or glassed over? I'm also listening to the way he's breathing, waiting for it to come back to normal, listening for any other little sounds he might be making. I will admit taking a little bit of pleasure in that gasp he makes when his underwear slids into place and he first feels the pressure of the fabric and elastic on his hot, sore skin. His eyes go wide and the reality of what just happened hits him all over again. It's a wonderful moment.

The thing is that is only taking a small part of my mind. I have no idea where the rest of me is. However, this is fairly common. I'm sure you and most of our other members are familiar with the concept of "subspace". Not as many people know that there is a complimenatry state "Topspace". This is caused by a release of chemicals in the brain just as subspace is, however the chemicals are slightly different, still when it goes right both parties feed into each other and they are off in their own little world. Often I tell people that when I am in the middle of a session they could hold the Rose Parade, the Super Bowl and the Second Coming in my living room less than 10 ft from me and I would not notice. This is because when it is going well I'm in that space, he is in his and all that exists during that time is the session. Just as it takes a little while after it's over for the person being spanked to come back to normal, it takes we who do the spanking some time to do the same.

However, as I said at the begining you know your wife best, and if you think her mind is really elsewhere you should talk to her about it. Don't challenge, don't complain, just say she looks worried about something.

Sunday, September 17, 2017

LA CANE une autre fois

Well, I thought my limited French might catch your attention, exactly as the cane has captured Lynn's attention.

Yesterday, my weight was up immensely, which makes absolutely no sense whatsoever. This might mean that we have to take a different approach to losing weight, or simply I might have to stop eating.

I informed Lynn of my weight, and Lynn informed me to get the cane. No waiting around this time. Unfortunatley, the position of me bending, supporting my upper body with my hands on a chair, was not protective of my back. We tried my supporting my entire upper body on a counter, but there was no swing room for Lynn to use the cane.

Lynn, however, remembered that Aunt Kay had stated when we visited that another equally effective way is that I should lay on a bed, with my bottom propped up by pillows. No strain on the back, just on my bottom. [This proves that Lynn is thinking back to the visit to Aunt Kay, and benefitting from her experience.]

Now, the bad point. Lynn stated that maybe the spankings are not working effectively enough because of the sex we have most times immediately after the spanking. Thus, this morning, there would be the spanking, but no sex immediatley following, and as it ended up, we were up very late, and went to sleep with just a cuddle.

We went into the bedroom, Lynn carrying the cane, and I put two pillows on top of each other. I suggested to Lynn that she should try a few practice strokes on the pillows, because this was a different motion than when I was standing bent over at the waist.

Lynn did a few tentative strokes, then smacked the pillows with considerable force, and a loud thud. Lynn cheerfully stated that she was ready, and I slowly lowered my clothes, baring my bottom, and then placed myself on top of the pillows. Lynn was ready, but I was not looking forward to the experience.

Fortunately, Lynn did not cane my bottom as hard as she had the pillows, and gave a few strokes of a very timid nature. No reaction on my part made Lynn aware that she was being timid, such that she stated maybe we will do a few more after she had gotten to six. Another eight or so had her getting a feel for swing and distance, and the last couple received a reaction from me.

The strength of those last two strokes will probably be the starting weight for the next spanking.

When finished, Lynn stated I could get up, and I thanked her for spanking me. Lynn responded that I was welcome, and left the room to continue her day, leaving me to straighten the bed and put the cane away.

The remainder of the day went very pleasantly. What will happen today is probably a repeat of yesterday, because yesterday's immediate spanking was because my weight had gone up, but today is the routine of every second day. Maybe bread and water is the solution.

bottoms up
Red / Mike

Friday, September 15, 2017

more serious discipline

Yesterday, was the "every second day" in our regime of spankings to increase motivation to lose weight. Lynn is increasing the motivation with every spanking.

Since returning home from the business trip, we have moved up the scale from the small hairbrush, to 'old reliable', then to the bath brush, then the 'holy terror'.

Although I have lost some weight, it isn't moving much, and some keeps getting put back on, so increased motivation has been Lynn's goal.

Last night, Lynn in a very happy, cheerfully smiling mood, stated 'it's time for your spanking'! Lynn actually then proceeded to give me a choice, or either be spanked now, and then have dinner, or wait until after dinner. I chose now.

Lynn suggested that maybe she should use the cane! I responded that maybe could she re-read some on Aunt Kay's "Effective Caning Techniques", and practice a little before using the cane. Lynn initialially stated no, 'get a leather thing', but before I had retrieved a leather paddle she changed her mind, and stated get the manual and a cane for me to use.

I retrieved both, then setup a chair that I would bend over, and finally placed a pillow on the chair
where my bottom would be. Lynn picked up both the manual and the cane, aptly named by Aunt Kay as 'hollerin hollow'.

Lynn read a little, especially about positioning herself, and I helped adjust her directions. She then stated she would be fine, and would call me when she was ready. I went and stood in a corner in the next room. While there, I heard a number of solid thuds on the pillow, knowing fully that this practice would soon be reality on my bottom. This was not a very fun listening experience.

Lynn requested I return, and promptly had me standing bare at the waist and bent over the chair, using my hands to support myself. What followed were six smart strokes. They stung, but not as much as the holy terror or bathbrush, but then again, it was only six and Lynn is learning. The bathbrush and every other implement is used for many more spanks, obviously. These cane strokes were not as hard as what Aunt Kay had applied as just part of the spanking lesson she had given to me, in demonstrating how to use various spanking implements to Lynn.

I am certain that Lynn will learn how to use this cane even more effectively with practice. (my bottom being the practice ground.)

Lynn then informed me that she was going to take a bath, and then we would make love. She read the Cosmo Kama Sutra[77 mind blowing postions] [available at amazon.com for 12.48, i just checked] that I mentioned maybe a year ago, and we tried a new positon as part of our love making that was really tremendous. Page 79, the rock and roll. The warmth still in my bottom attested to the fact that the cane had done it's job.


If you do not own a cane, I recommend that you click the link to check out this cane. If you are worried that it might be opened by customs, Aunt Kay nicely describes it as an educational pointer, and the likelyhood of it being opened by customs is about nil.

We have purchased all three canes that we own from Aunt Kay's website.

the following description.

Hollerin' Hollow is a 28" long cane with a stiff character. It's impact is approximately twice that of other canes and it possesses an authority that announces "this is punishment, young man." The woman who wields Hollerin' Hollow will be well served in her efforts to build character in her husband. She will definitely receive the respect she demands. $28 plus shipping


I will post my EXTREMELY POSITIVE thoughts on Aunt Kay's Effective Caning Techniques in the next few days, and why you should purchase it.

The spankings are effective, but maybe sex immediately afterwards is fighting against there being totally effective.

bottoms up
Red / Mike

Wednesday, September 13, 2017

rain rain rain

Well, that sums up the weather, unless it gets a touch colder, in which case it will be snow, snow, snow...The spankings have been less on the home front, but at least three bend over now for a taste of the wooden spoon. Maybe we are being a little testy with each other, the post "Christmas holiday / New Year partying and accompanying stress".

Hopefully, things will be normal soon.

bottoms up
Mike/red

Monday, September 11, 2017

spanking drawings and photos with text

I thought it was time to show a few more drawings, and photos with text, on our favorite subject.





I can imagine that when the children are all grown, and left the house, a new and unique way of using a spare room might be to roast someone's bottom, and opposed to making it into a all-purpose room.






However, whenever the house is empty, with children having flown the coop, or else off at school and you both have some time off, then this picture with text is perfect for any problem.

This offers sage advice to all spankers.




Solving a problem immediately when you find out is the ideal!

Every action has a re-action!

For two separate offenses, many times it is best to give two separate spankings, maybe separated by only an hour in between. Thus, the spanker is rested, but the spankee will still feel the first spanking, while receiving the second. Double the trouble, double the fun!!!

Planning ahead is always important.


If a wife feels she needs to spank her husband but is alone, a phone call at work will certainly transfer the stress and upset feelings she has to the proper recipient. Why fret all day, when yuo can remove the stress and give it first verbally, and then physically when he gets home.

Doing this while he is at work transfers the stress from you to him, and when he arrives home you know exactly how you intend to discipline him.
So, a thoughtful reminder is :


anytime, anywhere

There were some other good drawings, but they have the man responding as if he is a boy, and the woman although clearly his own age, is talking like the mother. Personally, we feel no need to age play, I am a grown man who is spanked whenever needed, to help maintain a loving and harmonious lifestyle with my wife.

bottoms up
Mike/ Res

Saturday, September 09, 2017

last spanking for 2006


Twas the night before New Year's Eve
and all through the house,
not a creature was stirring,
except for Lynn, her leather straps and paddles, and myself.

Lynn is really returning to the DWC fold with enthusiasm, as slowly, we evolve into being together without family again. It has been wonderful having close family visiting with us, and our son home for the holidays.

In private, Lynn has reminded me that once everyone has gone, she wil be free to spank me whenever it is needed. This could be quite often in the short term as some of my less admirable habits have returned. I am certain that a few spankings will have us completely on track. However, some spankings may occur simply because Lynn is in the mood to spank me. I am loving the affectionate pats she gives to my bottom almost daily while in private.



Oh the weather outside is frightful,
but inside activities are (mostly) delightful,
because no matter how hard the rain falls, (and blows and gusts and blows)
the spanks reign :> the spanks reign :> The SPANKS REIGN :> :> :>

This last spanking had me bare bottom as usual, with Lynn deciding I should lie on the bed, after retrieving the leather implements for her. Lynn is now able to spank with abandon with these instruments, knowing that they are not dangerous as a wooden bath brush might be. Also, with her standing, she has complete freedom of movement, as opposed to when I am laying over her lap.

I miss the intimacy of laying over her lap, but the spanking is usually more intense laying on the bed, and Lynn relishes using three different implements. (The leather strap, leather finger strap, and the leather paddle) Lynn is becoming very accomplished with these.

The ensuing make-up loving sex was tremendous, which eventually involved my orally bringing Lynn to climax, followed by her taking the on top position, grinding my sore bottom onto the bed, before doing her exquisite squats bringing me to a thunderous climax.

So, a Happy New Year to all, and may all your spankings be followed by wonderful sexual experiences.

And may you be in love forever...

bottoms up
Red / Mike

Thursday, September 07, 2017

No nonsense spanking

Lynn came home yesterday, and I went to greet her as usual. This has become a habit, instead of simply calling out "Hi" and continuing whatever I was doing. This has been one of Lynn's ideas, that whoever comes home should be greeted and share an affectionate kiss.

It is a good idea, but if I forget, a hairbrush is always a alternative response to a lack of a proper greeting, instead of a kiss.

This time, I greeted Lynn and asked how she was, and her response was that she was fine. In addition, she added that when she has put her coat and parcels away, she was going to spank me. This was totally unexpected!

I asked if I could help with her coat, and also requested whatI had done wrong. Lynn responded she would tell me while spanking me!!!

We almost immediately went upstairs, where I was informed to get the spanking chair, and carry it so that the wheels did not make marks in the carpet. Lynn requested the bath brush, and when seated, informed me to lower my pants and underwear, and get over her lap.The spanking started immediately with enthusiasm. The spanks struck home often before the explanation was given. I was informed that Lynn had decided in the morning after I had gone to work that she was fed up of my taking some food from the kitchen and walking around the house eating it without a plate. Thus crumbs were forever dropping on the floor. The spanking picked up in intensity as Lynn vented some of her pent up frustrations.

I very readily promised to discontinue this practice immediately, and after a number of more spanks, Lynn finally stopped. I thanked Lynn for the spanking, and we kissed. This progressed into very passionate kissing, followed by wonderful sucking, licking, and exceptionally passionate sex.

The aftermath, one day later, is that we are more affectionate than ever, and I am careful what I eat, and where. Also, although the spanking occured around 6Pm, my bottom was still red when we went to bed.

May all your little problems, insignificant to the spanked husband or spanked wife, be solved in such a wonderful method of spank and change your ways, instead of constant battling or arguing.

bottoms up
Mike/Red

Tuesday, September 05, 2017

Why we allow ourselves to be spanked!

This is a interesting question to ask yourself. It comes from a comment from Fred that he posted a few days ago.

FRED wrote: One thing I know already: because of this spanking and the others I've been given, we get over things and move on. Even if finances are tight, etc., we feel like we're working at it together. And I have the wonderful, powerful, assertive woman back that I fell in love with 25 years ago!

DWcMike:
I agree, it solves problems, and allows the couple to move on.
Also, spanking is my fetish, but as my spankings become more commonplace, the immediate sexual arousal is not quite as fast, and disappears very quickly. Fortunately, Lynn revives my arousal after most spankings.

MAYBE WHILE I AM AWAY, OTHERS MIGHT LIKE TO WRITE A RESPONSE ALSO.

How hard are your spankings:

Fred wrote about a specific problem:
This has caused Ann long term feelings of anger. She asked me how bad the spanking should be. I told her and she responded saying that she would spank me until two conditions were met:
1. That she felt that she had completely vented her anger and frustration.
2. My bottom looks bad enough.

She said she simply will not stop until she thinks my bottom looks like she has punished it to the equivalent of the depth of her feelings on the matter.

She said be prepared for her to rest, etc., and then to come back to do more. I'll let you know the outcome. Hopefully Fred will write well I am away, for everyone to read.

DWCMIKE: my spankings have become harder and longer, and Lynn is more readily willing to use spankng me as a problem solving method in our house. every spanking is stronger than when she first began, and I would say significantly stronger in the last few months. (or have I just been tenderized)

Have your spankings gotten harder and longer from when they began?
bottoms up
Red

Sunday, September 03, 2017

a few drawings

I thought I would just attach a couple of drawings. I hope that the artists do not mind.The best way to deliver a warm paddling with the 'holy terror' might be as shown in this drawing by Danny M. Anyone knowing where further art of this nature cna be found should let us all know.



until then

bottoms up

Mike

Friday, September 01, 2017

quickie post

I hope that all the readers have had a Merry Christmas, and that things are looking bright for the New Year. If some do not celebrate Christmas, I hope that htey are enjoying the holiday season.

May one of the brightest things in the New Year be the rosy glow from your well spanked bottom.

I thought I would post two mooska captioned photos for the day.
The second is a wonderful thought. Ou r partner may not be as beautiflul as these tow women, but this is with special lighting, and make-up. Seeing these ladies in real life would be different.

The reality of our wonderfully beautiful and sexy partner is that they are real, and the spankings they give are REAL.



Have a great day.
bottoms up
Mike

Wednesday, August 30, 2017

Some interesting quotes

Randomly searching through blogs, I found a link to the following site.

click on the following link to get to the site:

Abel and Haron's Spanking Gifts

They have the above illustration, that can be purchased for tee shirts, caps, mugs, etc....

They also have a section of some biblical quotes worth repeating, that can also be printed on tee shirts, mugs, caps, etc..:

Proverbs 23:13 Withhold not correctionProverbs 23:14 The Rod and Reproof Give Wisdom
Proverbs 29:15 Thou shalt beat him with a rod

A fun couple of minutes imagining buying something with these or other sayings on them, and either wearing them, or keeping them as a in house thrill only.

My favorite: generate renewal energy, spank me now.

I couldn't resist:
an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth...
should you spank a DWC woman...
The devil made me do it.

bottoms up
Mike

Monday, August 28, 2017

Ready, set, go

Ready
Set
GO
bottoms up
Mike

Thursday, August 24, 2017

Cartoons from the past

Well, if we think about it, most of us remember cartoons and drawings of an attractive woman being spanked. Very few existed on public display of a man being spanked! If anyone has some, please scan and send them to me. I will then share them with all my readers.

If I am trying to add little quips, then the second might be the marriage counselor. MAny people profess that this idea solves many marital problems.
As some readers might guess, I dedicate the next cartoon to Penny!
If the next were true, there would be an amazing line for trying to become a teacher.... shucks.. the good old days. These persons depicted would definitely be of universtiy or college age, so no spanking of children.
The last: just keeping order in the house.and remember, don't take spanking too seriously, it can always be for fun as often as possible, as these young women show.
bottoms up
Mike

Tuesday, August 22, 2017

mooska



one of the original caption writers from 2009 and before...bottoms up
Mike

Sunday, August 20, 2017

corner time

UPDATE: MATT has sent me the link to the commentary of the spanking of an unwilling teenage girl. I will NOT post the link, as this would just play to the fantasy of any readers so interested. It really is an unnecessary inclusion by the author! However, spanking of children is an ongoing debate in some circles, and a few faith based groups try to blend it with religion. I find that a sad occurrence.

As everyone knows, if you click on a blogger name, it will bring up their profile, and would show the blogs that they write, and the blogs that they subscribe to. Thus, clcik away on the extreme ones, and you can read just about anything.

PS: Many people would find what is written here to be abhorrent! Such is life. ENJOY!!!

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Probably I deserve a time-out for not thoroughly checking out a blog before posting a link. However,knowing what most people reading this blog would think, corner time on its own without suitable chastisement would be insufficient.

Depending on the level of annoyance, this might be a significant hand warm-up, followed by the trusty hairbrush
and maybe a strap to make certain the idea was remembered.
bottoms up
Mike

Friday, August 18, 2017

Spanking Lynn

Well, time to explain a little more of our lifestyle.

The first item is that my spankings are never like the spankings described on the DWC website.The article in "tips and methods" is excellent, but we do NOT follow the summary that ends with "When you let him up, his eyes should be wet with tears, his knees should be quivering, and it should be obvious by looking at his bottom that he is displaying the marks left after a good session."

My bottom is well spanked, as are the backs of my upper legs sometimes, but I have never been in tears or knees quivering. We believe that this description is more for show, than reality. It is NOT necessary to spank to this extreme to be effective.

Lynn spanking me is extremely effective in relieving my stress, or in relieving her anger/disappointment with me, or simply reminding me of how I should behave.

I have been acting more dominate lately, and I am reasonably certain that Lynn will give me a spanking to remember who is in charge of spankings almost exclusively.However, the husband is not always wrong. Lynn has done a couple of things that were really wrong, and developed from her allowing stress to build in her life, and not reacting to the stress reasonably. The easiest way is to talk to me about the stress, and how we can solve it.

The result of the behaviour had Lynn agreeing to Seven real spanks on her bare bottom. I thoroughly enjoyed the view of Lynn's beautiful bare bottom, as all husbands do. The spanks were firm, and did not even elicit an ouch! Previous rare spankings have had Lynn ouching with only four spanks. The spanking was followed by fabulous hot sex. I am certainly not one to hold grudges.

Two days later, though, another case of the stress Lynn permits to build surfaced, and resulted in a spanking of eight spanks. [ You might see that I am adding one each time their is a need for another spanking] Her bottom displayed a very nice shade of pinkish red where my hand had spanked, and the sex afterwards was really memorable. My hand was sore after the spanking, so it does not have the callouses that my bottom has built up over time.

Have the spankings reduced the stress? Not really, but they have helped a little for the time being. While being spanked, and then making love, the worries of the world tend to diminish, and can be followed by a wonderful nights sleep.

The point of this posting is to let everyone know that I believe both partners can and should be spanked at some times. Both parties can benefit from a spanking. This is more in line with the Dorothy Spencer Plan than the DWC plan. However, we might state that the spanking ratio is maybe hundred to one Lynn spanking me, and I have only built up to eight hand spanks of Lynn.

Many women love being spanked, and the blogs you can read are amazing. I wholeheartedly recommend Hermione's to you, if you have yet to visit, as well as Tiggs and Bonnie's.

Spankings can be for fun, or for discipline, but they bring the couple closer together than ever. Old Fashioned Micheal might agree.

Now a fun video, if you watch to the end.... Wish they showed these type of commercials in north America!
video
Bottoms up
Mike

Wednesday, August 16, 2017

red and white

Well, Lynn yesterday very justifiably gave me a bare bottom spanking! Sometimes, my responses are sarcastic, and they inevitable have me regretting what I sometimes think is humor.Lynn lay on the bed, and I lay over her knees, while she used the wooden hair brush that we own. Repeated spanks to the same spot, before moving to a new spot, certainly changed my attitude to using sarcastic remarks.

Today, had a repeat performance, and it is only mid-afternoon. This time it was once again the hair brush, which is made by a company called Goody. She picked it up and said GOODY, both in delight to be about to solve a problem, and humor in using the name of the company which so coincides with the effect it had on her, and the effect she was intending to make on me.

Hopefully I will earn soon!

bottoms up
Mike

Reasons why OTK spankings are great

This has been borrowed (that is copied) from the TASKA yahoo group site, for your amusement. The sex of the spanker and spankee has been changed to fit this blog. Posted by "Alice Kerr-Sutherland"

First, they are good for your health.
* The spanker gets a good workout chasing an errant partner, dragging them to the chair, holding then in place despite their struggles, and of course the effort of a truly good spanking.

* For the spankee, the effort of running, struggling, and of course all that kicking and waving arms around. Better than Aerobics!

* Spankees spend more time standing, even dancing frantically. Much healthier activity than sitting. Perhaps we can teach the spank aerobics in gyms? Worlds more fun than step, and way more action than yoga.

* Spanking is great for the circulation. First all the blood rushes to the head as the spankee is positioned over the knee. Then when the spanking begins the blood rushes to the bottom. Soon the face is red with crying and yelling, the heart rate jumps as arms and legs wave and kick. By the end the heart has had an excellent workout.
Again, roll on spank aerobics. (And I intend to patent that. But you can all buy shares.)

* Asthmatics are often told to take up swimming to improve lung capacity. Think of the wonderful benefits of a spanking, plenty of exercise and a good workout for the lungs too, but without all the time spent getting to the pool, changing clothes, drying off, etc.

* Along the same lines, think of aspiring singers. Spankees often hit notes that Opera singers can only dream about. And sustain them for amazingly long periods. The opportunity is there for a truly effective training program.. And there is that improvement in lung capacity again. All that yelling..... it has to pay off.

* Mental agility is improved too. Trying to think up excuses that will work to avoid a spanking, looking for hiding places for contraband, trying to find a loophole in the rules, all keep a spankee alert. And of course the spanker is playing the other side; watching, checking, continually on her toes. That sort of thinking keeps you young.

Secondly, they help you save money.

* Less wear and tear on the furniture. After all, the two of you use only one chair. And afterwards the spankee doesn't sit at all for a while..

* You can examine the carpet for marks and stains while you are down there. Might find a lost pen or a few coins too, if you check around.

* It's a cheap hobby. No equipment at all is required, just a place for the spanker to sit. If he decides to go beyond a hand spanking many appropriate implements are lying around the house, just begging to be used. Much cheaper than the expense of buying golf clubs, scuba gear or electric trains.

* Spankers often find that giving a spanking to that hot red bottom, which is doing all that wriggling on your lap, has a somewhat arousing/ moistening effect. Just a bit. Think of the savings on Viagra. Although, it may be interesting trying to fill the prescription.

Thirdly, they can add excitement to your life.

* Just imagine you are going to the most boring party on earth. As you arrive your partner whispers in your ear, Behave yourself tonight or I'll be warming that naughty little bottom of yours when we get home..
Instantly your mind is alert. Just how far can you push? You know you are being watched all the time. You flirt, you tease, always keeping one eye open. And then it happens, the whisper, Right Young man, that's enough. You'll be in the corner as soon as we get home. I want to see that naughty bottom of yours on display. And then you're going over my knee and I'm spanking you until you are one sorry young man.
The rest of the party passes in a blur of thrills and chills, terrified anticipation and shivery excitement. Definitely not dull.

* A simple shopping trip becomes a roller coaster of thrills. Do I buy it? Can I afford it? Will she find out?
* As you walk around the house, just seeing a hairbrush lying on the dresser or a wooden spoon in a kitchen drawer can bring a little tingle in the tummy, or a bit lower down. Your own home is more exciting than an amusement park.
And the best of all:

* A good spanking often leads to an extended session of rumpy-pumpy. And if you need me to tell you why that's a good thing, you are doing it wrong!
So, ladies and gentlemen, I rest my case.

Web-site: http://www.ourcastle.com
Governess,
Miss Alice Kerr-Sutherland
Owner/Manageress
of Yahoo! group: "The Alice Kerr-Sutherland Association"

bottoms up
Mike

Monday, August 14, 2017

Laurent Lebeau art

Laurent's creation of this woman shown in the above art is absolutely amazing. Seeing her drawn 'in action', so to speak, in a spanking scene, is fun. I believe these drawings are truly excellent.

I have had some very gracious email conversations with Mr. Lebeau.

I, like many other people probably do, have copies of spanking art and spanking photos that they have come across while browsing the web. You simply right click on the item, then choose save as, and then save it into a folder that is buried deeply enough that no one simply looking over your shoulder would wonder about the folder. Thus, a few days ago, I thought I would publish a few of Laurent Lebeau's drawings. I did not remember what site they came from, so after creating the posting, I Googled his name and found a few places. One had an email address for Mr. Lebeau, and thus I emailed him to ask permission to use

Laurent focuses on all aspects of femdom, and has excellent art. Some readers may be attracted to his dressing men in woman's clothing, while dominating and spanking them. Some might fantasize about a younger woman spanking an older man. Being truthful, some of his art is not to my liking, but that is when he has a girl watching a older man being spanked.

One fun idea is that Laurent is not afraid of showing the dominant woman holding the man's erection while guiding him over her knee.

In my opinion, a far more erotic way than simply pulling him into position by his ear. The sexual aspect of spanking and domination is always present.

A google search on the artist's name brings up a number of sites where his artwork can be viewed, and possibly purchased.

Click on the following link to see his most current art. Laurent Lebeau artwork

I have also found a myspace site that Laurent has! Laurent describes himself:
I am from France. I enjoy travelling a lot being both a writer and artist. I find my inspiration in all the thing I see around me. I have seen many landscapes, many people, many feelings and they are all my unique richness I am a graphic artist of the wonderful Fetish World and I illustrate fantasies and decorate playspaces... I am into the ''scene'' I invite you to discover more...

If you are a member of yahoo groups, then you could join his Yahoo Group!
After a letter back and forth, I received the following:
" Okay I send you a series of spanking discipline artworks and you can take my info in my website... Please mention I will be in art show next Thursday 28th 2009 New York City... for who want attend. free participation upon reservation
all my best Laurent"

Laurent is mentioning " The Fetish Marathon 2009 in New York City, Thursday May 28th, through Sunday May 31. Laurent also wrote: "Please mention I will be in artshow next Thursday 28th 2009 New York City... for who want attend. free participation upon reservation." Unfortunately, I do not know the address of the artshow.

So. Laurent has sent me about twenty drawings with permission to use them on this blog only.
I will use a few at a time over the next few months. The choices for today were of a man, cross dressing, but not totally unhappy with this aspect, if you look closely at the last drawing.

bottoms up
Mike