Wednesday, July 26, 2017

spanking contract - for punishment spankings

We originally tried creating a spanking contract about three years ago, but it was a little too overwhelming at the outset. At that time, we were not able to understand how the spankings would modify my behaviour, nor really assess the effect of spankings in solving specific situations. If I liked to be spanked, how could a spanking for misbehaviour be a deterrent, instead of a reward.

My first suggestion is that you read the information on the Spencer spanking plan, that can be found at the following website, mostly because it is free.

I will quote only a little from this document, and change where appropriate he for she, because the plan mostly revolves around the male spanking the female, while our situation is the exact opposite.

"The thing to do is this:

Establish causes that will produce the discipline.

Agree upon the matter thoroughly. Don't leave the thing to the whim of the moment. Let your husband know what he will be spanked for, so he can watch his step and strive to avoid the discipline if he can. This is only fair."

However, the best contract for a DWC relationship can be ordered from the DWC website [a link is in the right hand column of this blog] by ordering the lifestyle kit for $20. I recommend it to everyone. If you are in the male spanks female situation, you could still purchase it but always reverse the roles. The concept is identical. Purchasing from them helps them to maintain the site, which I truly appreciate.

The main idea of the contract is to use punishment spankings for one specific event until it has been satisfactorily corrected over a period of time. The man and woman each list three items they want to improve for the relationship to flourish. A weighting scheme is used to determine which one of the six ideas is to be concentrated on. The scheme makes sense, but you will have to buy the lifestyle kit for the explanation. I feel it would be wrong to give this information out, and if I ever met Aunt Kay, she would deservedly want to spank me for this behaviour.

The goal is to be successful, thus it is not necessarily the most important of the six that is first addressed.

What the point system used has chosen for us will be very easy, but needed addressing.
We have been traveling extensively, but when at home, we would stay at home almost every evening, not getting out and enjoying the wonderful city of Vancouver. Basically, I was the person saying no, and just sitting bored in front of the television many nights.

I must initiate an evening out, once a week, every week for a month. If at the end of the week we have not gone out, then I will receive a punishment spanking immediately.

My goal, honestly, is to avoid any punishment spanking. Punishment spankings are much more severe. I would much rather look forward to a play spanking. I immediately suggested a movie, and we went on Thursday night. [ "Where the Truth Lies'. We loved the movie, including the sexual content in the movie.] We both had fun. I just have to get off my buns, or they will be roasted at the end of the week.

The maintainence spankings I receive, are definitely strong, and these will still be given probably bi-weekly. Warning spankings, and when necessary stress relief spankings will still be given, as will both types of on the spot spankings. Thus, avoiding punishment spankings shows my committment to making our relationship and love more endearing everyday of our life.

If our DWC relationship is to keep working, I must be striving to eliminate behaviour that needs a spanking. Going out once a week will obviously be increased to twice a week after a month, but if this works correctly, another item will be determined as more important next month.

Plus, by listing the six most important ideas to work on, I have a head start on curbing these other behaviours before the next month, thus making it easier to succeed when the time comes to address them..

I include the Spencer contract for you to see, but the Dwc contract has a bettter method of describing the behaviour, monitoring the behaviour, and as stated before, deciding the behaviour to be worked on.

Date ______________________ 20___

I, . ____________________________ husband of _________________________.

do hereby acknowledge that I have read the Spencer Spanking Plan and approve of the doctrines it advocates. From this date on it is my wish to have my conduct regulated by the enforcement of these doctrines. I give to my wife, therefore, the full right and permission to spank me whenever she feels such discipline would prove helpful and be in accordance with the spirit of the Spencer Plan. This Agreement has been entered into willingly--and for no other purpose than to improve my disposition and secure the general benefit that always comes from the enforcement of intelligent discipline. I understand that I will be spanked without fail if I break my promise to refrain from:

(List the situation which has been agreed upon for immediate atttention.)

I promise to cooperate with my wife faithfully. I will get ready for the punishment promptly when asked to do so and I will bear her absolutely no ill-will for so disciplining me.

I promise further to ASK for spankings when I feel I need them. I realize that Request Punishment plays a highly important part in the Spencer Plan, and I will report and ask for the discipline when I feel need or deserve it.


X _________________________________ (husband)

X _________________________________ (wife)

Do you have a discipline contract? Would you like to have one?

PS: We wlll be out of town for three days, going to the Buffalo Bills game, then staying in Buffalo for two nights, doing some shopping, and maybe catching a play at the Shaw Festival. No new posts until at least Wednesday, and my buns are safe for another week.

until next time


bottoms up

Monday, July 24, 2017

How spankings have improved our lives

Let me start by restating that I am a spanko, meaning that I find the idea of spanking to be very erotic. Reading about other real life situations have a very erotic effect on me.(I get a hard-on]) I believe it is similar for women who love spanking, in that it makes them moist, if not wet.

However, the actual time I am over my wife's knees [otk], and she is applying the hairbrush or bath brush, or using one of the other implements that I have shown, are not as enjoyable. Spankings hurt, they leave marks, but they are therapeutic. While being spanked, I have never stated please keep spanking, however, I have never had to plead to my wife to please stop. We did have a safe word, which means stop immediately if I state the word, but we have never used it. We no longer have a safe word, because if a reason exists for me to be spanked, then I should not be allowed to control how long I am spanked, it's intensity, or when it should stop. Those decisions are for my wife to make. [Also, my wife kept forgetting what the word was when we were talking about spankings]

My wife has always slowed her spankings somewhat when she has seen them being effective, with a desire of not hurting me. However, the nature of a spanking is to cause discomfort and pain. We, almost after every formal spanking, make love. If it is a on the spot swatting in the kitchen, then it is a minute problem solver and let's get back on with life. Thus, spanking and sex are intertwined in my mind, and fortunately, in my wife's mind.

My wife has never spanked me to tears, but that time will come I imagine in due course. If the situation merits it, and my wife makes that decision, then I readily accept my fate.


1. Lack of arguments.

We have not had an argument that has lasted more than five minutes in the last two years, and please realize that we both retired together two years ago, and thus are in a 24 / 7 living arrangement. [we do have some singular activities.] we travel together constantly also. Previous to spankings, we would have occasional arguments and not really talk or connect for a few days or more, as we nursed the grudge. Now the only nursing is me sitting gingerly in the evening. The last two arguments that I rememeber lasted less than five minutes, when my wife sized up the situation, and stated that we will solve this when we get home. I immediately knew from the tone that I would be spanked. I tried to back away from the argument, stating well maybe it is not such a big thing anyway, but she responded that I should have thought of that five minutes ago. One spanking was in the motel room when we got back to the motel.

2. Spankings solve my grouchiness:

Being not an absolutely perfect individual, I sometimes let the cares of the world get me down, and become grouchy. My wife has discovered that she can spank this away for me. While OTK, she reminds me of what a wonderful life we are having, how fortunate we are to have such great kids, also our great daughter-in-law, our health, and many other positive features. Note that each positive is connected to a number of spanks with the bathbrush. By the time the spanking is finished, I have regained my bright and positive mood that is normal, and I am so thankful for a wife who is so caring as to spank my blues away. I only wish I had told of my spanking desires twenty five years ago.

3.I have become a better listener, and thus a better social talker also.

This has taken a few spankings, before I saw the light, shall we say. It was well illuminated by my bright bottom. This evolved from being on the phone for 20 minutes, but not being able to give a summary of what the person had said. [oh, we talked about this and that]. Boorishly, I would tell other people about us, or more specifically me, but not really take an interest in asking questions about what they were interested in talking about.
I now listen, and greatly enjoy hearing what other people are doing or thinking. If I drink too much,[not drunk, not fall down], I talk incessantly. This has been changed for the better, both in terms of drinking and in terms of socializing.

4. I am extremely more considerate of my wife's desires, be they small or big, and thus our LOVE has grown more than I thought was possible.

She was originally totally against spanking. [aside: we have never once touched our children with even a playful spank.] My wife has been willing to spank me, to PLEASE ME. I, in turn, have tried to do the little things in life that relieve alot of frustration, things that show you are being considerate for each other.
[examples: regularly emptying the dishwasher, putting dirty dishes in the dishwasher, hanging up clothes instead of tossing them on the bed, or the railing in the hallway, putting the seat back down on the toilet after raising it, picking up the bathmat after a shower, and many other little things, that add up to one great big amount of caring, by showing that I am considering her feelings when I do things]

5. Being more social
I was often reluctant to get together with people I didn't know, but after a couple of spankings addressing this issue, I have found that meeting new people is more fun, and we are now entertaining beyond the regular small group of friends. We are both having a lot more fun, which improves the relationship.

6. On the spot wooden stirrer solves minor irritants
This solves problems immediately. If I am perceived as nagging, or just bitching about something, especially while my wife is making a meal in the kitchen, the stirrer is used on a bare bottom, until the problem disappears. My wife was annoyed by my behaviour, she has relieved this stress, and I have had it brought to my attention that this discussion or behaviour has just ended.
No hostility, a very simple solution.
Question: Had I been right or wrong?
bonnie's website stated it well: it's better to take an undeserved spanking than to miss a deserved one.
The disagreement was trivial, be spanked, and get over it. Far better than nurturing an argument.

7. We are both extremely happy, and I believe wholeheartedly, that spankings have helped us reach this level of happiness. My wife is not entirely certain, but does believe that spankings have helped the everyday happiness level.

We are now ready to advance the relationship with a spanking contract, which I will describe in a later post.


until then
bottoms up

Sunday, July 23, 2017


SPANKING (as inspired by Bonnie on her blog. I recommend it to all as a good read, but the reverse of my situation!) The first four letters were my own creation, but the last four definitely had the help of a dictionary....

S: Sudden slippering, swotting, slapping, smacking, strapping spankings supercede sitting softly.

P: Planning, preparation, presentation, paddle punishes posterior!

A: Affectionately, appropriately agonizing, attitude adjustment applied!

N: No nagging necessary, numerous noooo's needed!

K: Kindred, knowledgeable, Kafkaesque kerfuffle, karma, kowtow, kneeling, KAPOW, kindles keelhauled keister!

I: Interpreted initial ill-mannered impudent impropriety; immediately incurs interrogation. Impress ideal! Improvise imminent illumination. Impel intense inbound incendiary implement. Insufferable IMPACT!!! Intention: ignite inevitable, indelible, inflamed infrastructure.

N: Nabbed, naughtily, nefariously, navel-gazing nubile nude nymphets. Necessitates narration, nail-biting, no negotiation. Next! No-brainer! No namby-pamby! Naked! Nestled! Nine nettles, nipping, nibbling napalming nether-regions.

G: Glimpse going-ons gamble. Gall! Glance. Goddess gleans germanely, glacially gage. Greeting. Gotcha! Glare, glower, grasp! Grimace! Grounding! Grovel! Guff. Guilty! Gulp! Gloom! GONER! Guidance: genuflect genuinely. Goal: give golden gusty going-over. Glorious great gifts, generate gradual grandiose glistening gluteus glow, groans, gasps, gabble!! Gratitude!


Saturday, July 22, 2017

spanking communication

Hi: (Oct 12, 2005)
Just a quick post. I am now trying to respond to each comment, besides deleting spam. I am slowly going back to all comments, as though they were just entered. This is the friendliest method of encouraging discussion about the dark side of spanking ---- that is--- the woman spanks the male.... A very difficult idea for some to consider...

Most important reason for haste, however, is that my wife stated she was going to give me the spanking caused by my drinking....but she had to go out to a friend's house... thus the spanking will occur when she gets back, or later this evening,,

As Bonnie states on her website : No spanking is worse than living with guilt. Hopefully I can lessen the drinking, which is not out of control, but just more than is necessary.

We may afterwards discuss having a spanking contract... More on this later

bottoms up

Friday, July 21, 2017

munch reminder

Before going to the previously mentioned munch, my wife followed through on her reminder of who loved me, who was my partner, and also my lover and best friend.

The bathbrush was used, in the familiar method of my being bare bottomed over her knee. The spanking was quick, but vigorously applied, leaving a lasting impression. I was reminded that my bottom was solely for my wife, but more than that all of me, and that I could look during the munch but not touch. Having received a maintenance spanking the previous day, this spanking made a real impression.

During the munch, I constantly felt the reminder spanking while I sat listening to the discussion.

When I returned home later that evening, we made passionate love.

Whether the spankings continue, or become less often, I am so very fortunate to have a wonderful, beautiful wife that I love immensely and entirely, and who loves me.


bottoms up

Thursday, July 20, 2017

the be careful spank in public

We have visitors for the next ten days, so spankings may be at a minimum, and my postings may be infrequent, except for musings.

The be careful spank in public:

It is thrilling when my wife and I have been out somewhere, and she has reacted to something with a swat to my behind. This happened a couple of months ago, before I was writing this blog, and we were both shocked by it. Fortunately(?), it was done in a place where we did not know anyone, and we think in such a way that nobody saw, but the fact that it was administered spontaneously shows our evolution. When I turned and stared, rather shocked, at my wife, only then did she realize what she had done. The spank had been an automatic reaction to an unwanted behaviour by me. My wife had administered the spank as a warning, without thinking of where we were. This demonstrates she is becoming much more comfortable with the idea of it being her right to discipline me when needed.

The progression from this spank has been the occasional pat on the bum when I kiss her before going out alone on messages, or officiating, or when she is going out somewhere. It is thrilling. The pats are a token of our love, and for me to be aware of what will happen if I do something really stupid to displease her.

until next time
bottoms up

Tuesday, July 18, 2017

The Disciplinary Wives Club method - our modified method

I have referred in previous posts to the Disciplinary wives club method of spanking as advocated by Aunt Kay at her website. I hope she will not mind my including some of her writings here, specifically so that I can let you know how my wife and I are progressing in this lifestyle.

I hope to be able to meet Aunt Kay in the next few years, and she may possibly spank me for posting this, but I truly believe she would be flattered by my including it in my blog, and interested in our progress. Aside: I would only permit Aunt Kay to spank me, with my wife's express permission.

For first time readers, please realize that I am the one who has initiated the concept of my being spanked by my wife, and I could easily prevent my wife from spanking me if I wanted.

In any situation, if one person states that the other person is about to be spanked for whatever reason or even no reason whatsoever, the spankee has to willing allow themself to be bent over the spankers knee, or bend over and lean on a table while having their bottom bared, or lowering their clothing themself first. If they do not willing acquiesce, no spanking would occur. If the spankee is physically attacked, and forced into a spanking, then that is abuse, and a situation for the police.

The METHOD: " quotations are used for words from the website"

Prelude A
"Once he is across your knee, give him a few moments to get used to the fact that he is about to be spanked. Begin by giving a couple of hard smacks, then stop."

My wife sometimes scolds for a short while before administering any spanks. The position I am in, being over her knee, with my bottom bared, focuses my attention on the points she wishes to make prior to being spanked. She begins with anywhere from two to five spanks. When she first used the infamous bathbrush, she was shocked by how quickly I reacted bouncing around on her knee. This was not a normal occurence by me,(I try to be stoic), but I was shocked how much it hurt immediately. Before that particular spanking was over, I was truly regretting both the reasons for the spanking, and my having bought the bathbrush for her.

"The initial sting will be quite a shock to his system. If you were to keep on, he would struggle so much out of reflex action it would be difficult, if not impossible, to hold him in place. This pause after the first few whacks will give him a chance to mentally gear himself for the ordeal to come."

I was definitely worried when those first five bathbrush spanks ended, and certainly, if she had done fifteen in a row, I would have been fighting to get off her lap. The pause and wait after five did allow me to regain some composure, and realize that the reason I was over her lap was to be spanked, and that a spanking's purpose was to be a very unpleasant event. [That is, hurt] Lastly, it was something I was just going to have to endure.

Prelude B
"Give him a few more hard smacks and pause again. He will have started to squirm, but the smacks will have been given before any serious movement takes place."

These spanks let you know that you are in for what might I call 'a proper spanking.' Your bottom is being warmed up. As much as I like the fantasy of spanking, at this point I am definitely not liking it. By the stopping, I know that none of these spanks currently being given actually count in the spanking I am about to receive. My wife usually adds a few words while spanking to once again focus my mind on the changes that this spanking is wanting to accomplish.

"His body will be very tense as he awaits the next round of spanks. Wait for him to relax, and tell him to do so. Then resume the spanking."

I know more spanks are coming, I just don't know when. I must admit that at times I am somewhat frozen, trying to actually shrink the target (my bottom}, by squeezing it tight. My wife sometimes just runs her hand over my bottom until I relax, before continuing the spanking.

Prelude C
"Lecture him quietly on why he is being spanked. Tell him if he weren't so bad and naughty you wouldn't have to spank his bottom so hard, that sort of talk. For the next series, give eight whacks."

We have not progressed to this stage as of yet. Almost always my spanking begin at this point, for an uncounted number of spanks.

the main event (actual spanking)
"Continue to spank in this manner until you think he can take the remainder of the spanking, which should be thirty to fifty spanks without stopping."

My spankings have increased in intensity over the last couple of months, and my wife is beginning to enjoy ending with a flourish. She pauses, states that their will be ten more spanks, and sometimes even states 'i want you to count them'. She then spanks with extra strength, and the last two or three are extremely forceful.

the desired results[part one]
"A spanking should be an event to remember. Don't worry about how red his bottom gets. The more color you put into it, the better you are doing."

All my spankings end with my bottom being extremely red. My wife has acclimitized herself to the idea that the redder the better, and that my bottom has recovered fine after a few minutes, or more recently, after an hour or two, and occasionally being still red the next day after simply sitting on a comfortable chair.

the desired results[part two]
"Don't pay any attention to his cries and pleas and promises. He will tell you anything to get you to stop."

We have progressed to my making sounds of pain, ouches, owwws and the likes. I have not yet pleaded with her to stop, but I readily agree to anything she states, and make promises that the behaviour will change appropriately.

To ensure the continuance of appeasing my spanking fetish, of improving our marriage and love for each other, and showing that I truly mean to improve, I really try to change the specific items that I am spanked for. I do admit that I am not perfect, and the occasional reminder spanking is needed for a specific item, but this is fortunately becomer infrequent.

the desired results[part three]
"Allow him to squirm within limits. If it gets out of hand, give him a smack or two on the back of his thighs."

My wife has progressed to spanks onthe back of the thighs, and although she does them lighter, they are very effective.

the desired results[part four]
"If you give a spanking the way it should be given, the results should still show a week later."

We have not progressed to this level, and personally I hope we never achieve this goal, but that will be for my wife to decide.

the desired results[part five]
"He should wince every time he tries to sit for days after."

A couple of spankings have still been felt for a couple of days, so we are progressing down this road.

the desired results[part six]
"When you are through spanking, or for that matter, giving any form of corporal punishment, be sure he thanks you for taking the trouble to correct him."

This is important. It shows my wife that I appreciate her monitoring our relationship, and taking proactive action to solve problems, or minor annoyances, before they grow into major fights.

the desired results[part seven]
"If you feel it is appropriate have him go to a corner for at least thirty minutes. If you wish, make him stand there with his bottom bared. Do not allow him to talk, move, or rub his buttocks while he is there.'

My corner time is before being spanked, and only once with a bare bottom to focus on what was about to occur. The last time was over twenty minutes, and I must admit that you have little to think about while standing in the corner, except the reasons you are there, the spanking that is about to occur, and how much you love your wife.

"Always remember the key traits of establishing a dominant disciplinary relationship. When handling discipline issues be firm but fair, strict, demanding, aloof and unyielding. Don't be afraid to degrade and humiliate, and above all, when that bare bottom is turned up side down across your knee waiting for the paddle or hairbrush, don't disappoint him. When you let him up, his eyes should be wet with tears, his knees should be quivering, and it should be obvious by looking at his bottom that he is displaying the marks left after a GOOD session."

My wife has never spanked me this hard. I do believe that we would benefit from this type of spanking. I have yet to be brought to tears, but I have the emotional bent to have tears in a very emotional scene of a movie, or if one of my children has been injured. One of the most recent spankings did have one tear in one eye, but I was embarrassed to say anything to my wife, and I do not think she saw it.
In the future, I do expect that this type of spanking may be given on occasions. My wife still does not want to hurt me too much while spanking me, but realizes the purpose of the spanking. She is adapting rather well (unfortunately) to a spanking having the result of my bottom being extremely red, my owwws and ouches being frequent throughout the spanking, and a rather thankful but contrite husband at the end of the spanking.

The spankings usually end with what could be described as great make-up sex, because all has been forgiven, and we are free to show our love for each other.

If you are in a spanking relationship, drop me a line and we might communicate some time.

until then

bottoms up

stats counter

I have added a stats counter, having copied the idea from Kasey on her blog entitled "i'll beg". The idea is really easy, takes only fifteen minutes to install, only because I spent fourteen minutes reading all the data about it. I am amazed by how many people have visited the site.
If you are reading this, and feel inclined, you can leave a comment which I would be very interested to read. There is no way that I can search you out (nor would I want to), and obviously, for privacy, my name is not Mike.

all spankings posted, and my thoughts on them, are, however, very real....

bottoms up

Who can please who the most

No news on the spanking front. We had a bit of a downer day on Thursday, and got out of the funk by Friday evening. Last night when I got home from officiating, i asked if my wife might like to go out for a beer. She agreed, and said she would be ready in ten minutes. When she appeared, she was wearing the most revealing black top that she has ever worn out of the house. Thus, the title of this post. The beer and pizza were good, the sex at home later that night was great, and any maintenance spanking dealing with my nagging her about wearing sexier clothes would await another opportunity.

bottoms up

Friday, July 14, 2017

Bill Ward Archives

Bill Ward was a fabulous artist, who created drawings and accompanying stories.
He passed away at the age of 79, in 1998.
I always enjoyed his humor,besides the gorgeous women, and the spanking scenes.

When you look at your own age, and how fast life has gone, remember to keep enjoying every day that passes.Many of us grew up with his mainstream art, and reveled at his none mainstream art. Any google search on his name will bring up a multitude of sites.I should first advertise the family version site: Bill Ward's official web site, that is run by his son. His drawings could be found in many humor magazines, postcards, and many other publications.
One that shows many of his adult themed drawings can be found at Bill Ward archive gallery. in the adult themed drawings, he always had exaggerated women's figures, of the most voluptuous nature, and rather over endowed males. He would draw any type of scenario, if it could find an audience.Enjoy visiting for a first time one of these sites, or remembering with fond thoughts a previos era.

bottoms up

Wednesday, July 12, 2017

nici returns

First, some vintage humor just for a Friday.Always remember that both men and women have bottoms, and thus both can and should be spanked at times. No one, whether male or female, is always perfect. However, in our house, it is mostly my bottom that is almost exclusively spanked! As everyone knows, spankings can be fun, not simply punishment.

And now, NICI
Just wanted to say hi & send a couple pics if you would like to use.
Hope everyone in Canada & the US is enjoying the recent holidays. I'm looking forward to applying a few fireworks to a naughty bottom this weekend!Cheers
bottoms up

mattenklopper for every need

I thought everyone might like to see the following picture from a friends house.
Must certainly be an awful lot of carpets in that house.
I bet you even tread carefully ( :-) , just not to create too much dust in the house.


Monday, November 21, 2016

the stress solution for the season

Well, Lynn is keeping everything toasty on the home front, or shall I say the bottom.

Three days ago, Lynn decided it was necessary to do a quick spanking with Miss Hurley twice, and the food stirrer once during that day.

Two days ago Miss Hurley re-visited my bottom very effectively.

As of time of writing, I have just returned from the kitchen, where Lynn in a very kind and friendly voice asked me to join her for a moment. When I arrived, she picked up the food stirrer, and "the LOOK" told me to bend over with a bare bottom. The food stirrer effectively toasted my bottom, while Lynn informed me why she was unhappy with my behaviour. The spanking ended when Lynn felt the spanking had sufficiently covered the offense.

We seem to be in a cycle where frequent short spankings help keep all stresses of the season under control. It is far better than worrying, getting angry, shouting, arguing, or any other type behaviour that sometimes is the norm for a short period during the holiday season.

OTK : This means something that Only The Kind practice this in their relationship. It is far kinder to solve the problem and forget it, than to dwell on problems, and end up making the problems worse.

Lynn has just once again been ONLY TOO KIND:

She just finished another stronger toasting. The reason is unnecessary to explain, but she entered the room, stated their was one other thing she wants to deal with, and requested I retrieve Miss Hurley for her use. Then it was bare bottom over the sofa, fortunately with the blinds closed, for a very strong and effective dose of Miss Hurley's caresses.

When she finished the spanking and the lecture, Lynn was all smiles. While thanking her, Lynn replied that she has to give me some material to write for my blog, with a devilish smile, and a pleasing lilt in her tone.

Hopefully, all problems are solved, and my bottom can be a spank free zone for the remainder of the day, if not the week.

May you have the good fortune of spanking away the streses of the season
bottoms up

Friday, November 18, 2016

for your entertainment

Thought I would post a few pictures.

Maybe this might serve as a reminder to all the spankers that using the hand in an over the knee setting can be equally effective. The entire scenario of baring oneself, or being bared, and laying over the knee, does have it's own positive effect.

A couple of days ago, Lynn felt that I was grumpy in the morning, and proceeded to use the bath brush (Body Shop) for six really hard swats with me standing, bending over slightly.

Shall we say she definitely caught my attention, and this did dispel most of the momentary grumpiness. A far better solution than sinking lower into grumpiness and having a bad day.
The next night was a lobster dinner, and wonderful love making.

bottoms up

Thursday, November 17, 2016

Westfield drawings

Time for your imagination to get back to work.
Just imagine that your wife is in the middle of spanking you when her friend calls. This is a friend who also spanks and she suggests that changing positions a few times during a spanking will help your wife enhance her dominance.

First place him over the back of the couch, so that you can use a paddle and tone your arm.

Then you could always have him crawl over to a footstool, while you encourage his efforts to get there.
Once there, do make it a worthwhile for both of you.
Lastly, maybe give him a little encouragement to keep his weight down!

Once done, the problem should be solved, so that the love making that follows is spectacular.

bottoms up

Saturday, September 26, 2009

Big Bone Lick (very close to Beaver Lick)

Once you have visited Beaver Lick, it goes without saying that "Big Bone Lick should be nearby.

Both are definitely worth visiting :-)
Also nearby is Hopeful Heights!
The above photo,, is definitely connected to Beaver Lick.

Use google maps to find other interesting places to visit.

Beaver Lick, Big Bone Lick, Surgartit, Hopeful Heights and Rabbit Hash are all towns in Kentucky within 5 miles of each other. About 15 miles south of Cincinnati.

For more info: Naughty Tourists at Big Bone Lick

or the actual site Big Bone Lick State Park

bottoms up

Friday, September 25, 2009

Beaver Lick

I just post them, I don't make them up....
2009 Beaver Rd, Union, KY 41091 (Beaver Lick Trading Post)
Did you notice they have carry - out....

Beaver Lick is located in Kentucky....From George W. Hawes’ Kentucky State Gazetteer and Business Directory, for 1859 and 1860

A small post village in Boone county, situated on the Covington stage route, 20 miles from Covington, 12 miles from Burlington, the capital of the county, 65 miles north of Frankfort and 90 miles north-east of Louisville. It contains one church (Baptist), one seminary, one store, one hotel, two physicians, one magistrate, three blacksmiths, and one carriage maker. Population 100. Post office established 1854.

Thus, above are a few photos to accompany the above one, where the women is getting a licking. Theatre is the best for both Lynn and I.


Saturday, September 19, 2009

Prevention of H1N! virus for all

You may have already seen the email sweeping the world, but a new form of greeting is needed to prevent this damn virus from spreading.

Make certain you get with the program

bottoms up

Friday, August 07, 2009

Submissive male- or just a man having great fun!!!

Is oral sex an act of submission?
Definitely not! The positioning of the participants however, and the facial expressions, can have one person being served, while the other simply enjoys being served!These series of photos definitely show a submissive male scenario!The chain is an added touch in this next drawing! Adding in a touch of bondage certainly catches your attention!Thus, this little post is simply to allow me to post some very artistic but also stimulating photos, for your enjoyment.
If you do the photos well, they can definitely DISPLAY SUBMISSION!!!

Enjoy! I have added a link to Male Submission Art, where many of these drawings come from.

Personally, both giving and receiving oral sex is simply another joy in life.