Wednesday, August 30, 2017

Some interesting quotes

Randomly searching through blogs, I found a link to the following site.

click on the following link to get to the site:

Abel and Haron's Spanking Gifts

They have the above illustration, that can be purchased for tee shirts, caps, mugs, etc....

They also have a section of some biblical quotes worth repeating, that can also be printed on tee shirts, mugs, caps, etc..:

Proverbs 23:13 Withhold not correctionProverbs 23:14 The Rod and Reproof Give Wisdom
Proverbs 29:15 Thou shalt beat him with a rod

A fun couple of minutes imagining buying something with these or other sayings on them, and either wearing them, or keeping them as a in house thrill only.

My favorite: generate renewal energy, spank me now.

I couldn't resist:
an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth...
should you spank a DWC woman...
The devil made me do it.

bottoms up

Monday, August 28, 2017

Ready, set, go

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Thursday, August 24, 2017

Cartoons from the past

Well, if we think about it, most of us remember cartoons and drawings of an attractive woman being spanked. Very few existed on public display of a man being spanked! If anyone has some, please scan and send them to me. I will then share them with all my readers.

If I am trying to add little quips, then the second might be the marriage counselor. MAny people profess that this idea solves many marital problems.
As some readers might guess, I dedicate the next cartoon to Penny!
If the next were true, there would be an amazing line for trying to become a teacher.... shucks.. the good old days. These persons depicted would definitely be of universtiy or college age, so no spanking of children.
The last: just keeping order in the house.and remember, don't take spanking too seriously, it can always be for fun as often as possible, as these young women show.
bottoms up

Tuesday, August 22, 2017


one of the original caption writers from 2009 and before...bottoms up

Sunday, August 20, 2017

corner time

UPDATE: MATT has sent me the link to the commentary of the spanking of an unwilling teenage girl. I will NOT post the link, as this would just play to the fantasy of any readers so interested. It really is an unnecessary inclusion by the author! However, spanking of children is an ongoing debate in some circles, and a few faith based groups try to blend it with religion. I find that a sad occurrence.

As everyone knows, if you click on a blogger name, it will bring up their profile, and would show the blogs that they write, and the blogs that they subscribe to. Thus, clcik away on the extreme ones, and you can read just about anything.

PS: Many people would find what is written here to be abhorrent! Such is life. ENJOY!!!


Probably I deserve a time-out for not thoroughly checking out a blog before posting a link. However,knowing what most people reading this blog would think, corner time on its own without suitable chastisement would be insufficient.

Depending on the level of annoyance, this might be a significant hand warm-up, followed by the trusty hairbrush
and maybe a strap to make certain the idea was remembered.
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Friday, August 18, 2017

Spanking Lynn

Well, time to explain a little more of our lifestyle.

The first item is that my spankings are never like the spankings described on the DWC website.The article in "tips and methods" is excellent, but we do NOT follow the summary that ends with "When you let him up, his eyes should be wet with tears, his knees should be quivering, and it should be obvious by looking at his bottom that he is displaying the marks left after a good session."

My bottom is well spanked, as are the backs of my upper legs sometimes, but I have never been in tears or knees quivering. We believe that this description is more for show, than reality. It is NOT necessary to spank to this extreme to be effective.

Lynn spanking me is extremely effective in relieving my stress, or in relieving her anger/disappointment with me, or simply reminding me of how I should behave.

I have been acting more dominate lately, and I am reasonably certain that Lynn will give me a spanking to remember who is in charge of spankings almost exclusively.However, the husband is not always wrong. Lynn has done a couple of things that were really wrong, and developed from her allowing stress to build in her life, and not reacting to the stress reasonably. The easiest way is to talk to me about the stress, and how we can solve it.

The result of the behaviour had Lynn agreeing to Seven real spanks on her bare bottom. I thoroughly enjoyed the view of Lynn's beautiful bare bottom, as all husbands do. The spanks were firm, and did not even elicit an ouch! Previous rare spankings have had Lynn ouching with only four spanks. The spanking was followed by fabulous hot sex. I am certainly not one to hold grudges.

Two days later, though, another case of the stress Lynn permits to build surfaced, and resulted in a spanking of eight spanks. [ You might see that I am adding one each time their is a need for another spanking] Her bottom displayed a very nice shade of pinkish red where my hand had spanked, and the sex afterwards was really memorable. My hand was sore after the spanking, so it does not have the callouses that my bottom has built up over time.

Have the spankings reduced the stress? Not really, but they have helped a little for the time being. While being spanked, and then making love, the worries of the world tend to diminish, and can be followed by a wonderful nights sleep.

The point of this posting is to let everyone know that I believe both partners can and should be spanked at some times. Both parties can benefit from a spanking. This is more in line with the Dorothy Spencer Plan than the DWC plan. However, we might state that the spanking ratio is maybe hundred to one Lynn spanking me, and I have only built up to eight hand spanks of Lynn.

Many women love being spanked, and the blogs you can read are amazing. I wholeheartedly recommend Hermione's to you, if you have yet to visit, as well as Tiggs and Bonnie's.

Spankings can be for fun, or for discipline, but they bring the couple closer together than ever. Old Fashioned Micheal might agree.

Now a fun video, if you watch to the end.... Wish they showed these type of commercials in north America!

Bottoms up

Wednesday, August 16, 2017

red and white

Well, Lynn yesterday very justifiably gave me a bare bottom spanking! Sometimes, my responses are sarcastic, and they inevitable have me regretting what I sometimes think is humor.Lynn lay on the bed, and I lay over her knees, while she used the wooden hair brush that we own. Repeated spanks to the same spot, before moving to a new spot, certainly changed my attitude to using sarcastic remarks.

Today, had a repeat performance, and it is only mid-afternoon. This time it was once again the hair brush, which is made by a company called Goody. She picked it up and said GOODY, both in delight to be about to solve a problem, and humor in using the name of the company which so coincides with the effect it had on her, and the effect she was intending to make on me.

Hopefully I will earn soon!

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Reasons why OTK spankings are great

This has been borrowed (that is copied) from the TASKA yahoo group site, for your amusement. The sex of the spanker and spankee has been changed to fit this blog. Posted by "Alice Kerr-Sutherland"

First, they are good for your health.
* The spanker gets a good workout chasing an errant partner, dragging them to the chair, holding then in place despite their struggles, and of course the effort of a truly good spanking.

* For the spankee, the effort of running, struggling, and of course all that kicking and waving arms around. Better than Aerobics!

* Spankees spend more time standing, even dancing frantically. Much healthier activity than sitting. Perhaps we can teach the spank aerobics in gyms? Worlds more fun than step, and way more action than yoga.

* Spanking is great for the circulation. First all the blood rushes to the head as the spankee is positioned over the knee. Then when the spanking begins the blood rushes to the bottom. Soon the face is red with crying and yelling, the heart rate jumps as arms and legs wave and kick. By the end the heart has had an excellent workout.
Again, roll on spank aerobics. (And I intend to patent that. But you can all buy shares.)

* Asthmatics are often told to take up swimming to improve lung capacity. Think of the wonderful benefits of a spanking, plenty of exercise and a good workout for the lungs too, but without all the time spent getting to the pool, changing clothes, drying off, etc.

* Along the same lines, think of aspiring singers. Spankees often hit notes that Opera singers can only dream about. And sustain them for amazingly long periods. The opportunity is there for a truly effective training program.. And there is that improvement in lung capacity again. All that yelling..... it has to pay off.

* Mental agility is improved too. Trying to think up excuses that will work to avoid a spanking, looking for hiding places for contraband, trying to find a loophole in the rules, all keep a spankee alert. And of course the spanker is playing the other side; watching, checking, continually on her toes. That sort of thinking keeps you young.

Secondly, they help you save money.

* Less wear and tear on the furniture. After all, the two of you use only one chair. And afterwards the spankee doesn't sit at all for a while..

* You can examine the carpet for marks and stains while you are down there. Might find a lost pen or a few coins too, if you check around.

* It's a cheap hobby. No equipment at all is required, just a place for the spanker to sit. If he decides to go beyond a hand spanking many appropriate implements are lying around the house, just begging to be used. Much cheaper than the expense of buying golf clubs, scuba gear or electric trains.

* Spankers often find that giving a spanking to that hot red bottom, which is doing all that wriggling on your lap, has a somewhat arousing/ moistening effect. Just a bit. Think of the savings on Viagra. Although, it may be interesting trying to fill the prescription.

Thirdly, they can add excitement to your life.

* Just imagine you are going to the most boring party on earth. As you arrive your partner whispers in your ear, Behave yourself tonight or I'll be warming that naughty little bottom of yours when we get home..
Instantly your mind is alert. Just how far can you push? You know you are being watched all the time. You flirt, you tease, always keeping one eye open. And then it happens, the whisper, Right Young man, that's enough. You'll be in the corner as soon as we get home. I want to see that naughty bottom of yours on display. And then you're going over my knee and I'm spanking you until you are one sorry young man.
The rest of the party passes in a blur of thrills and chills, terrified anticipation and shivery excitement. Definitely not dull.

* A simple shopping trip becomes a roller coaster of thrills. Do I buy it? Can I afford it? Will she find out?
* As you walk around the house, just seeing a hairbrush lying on the dresser or a wooden spoon in a kitchen drawer can bring a little tingle in the tummy, or a bit lower down. Your own home is more exciting than an amusement park.
And the best of all:

* A good spanking often leads to an extended session of rumpy-pumpy. And if you need me to tell you why that's a good thing, you are doing it wrong!
So, ladies and gentlemen, I rest my case.

Miss Alice Kerr-Sutherland
of Yahoo! group: "The Alice Kerr-Sutherland Association"

bottoms up

Monday, August 14, 2017

Laurent Lebeau art

Laurent's creation of this woman shown in the above art is absolutely amazing. Seeing her drawn 'in action', so to speak, in a spanking scene, is fun. I believe these drawings are truly excellent.

I have had some very gracious email conversations with Mr. Lebeau.

I, like many other people probably do, have copies of spanking art and spanking photos that they have come across while browsing the web. You simply right click on the item, then choose save as, and then save it into a folder that is buried deeply enough that no one simply looking over your shoulder would wonder about the folder. Thus, a few days ago, I thought I would publish a few of Laurent Lebeau's drawings. I did not remember what site they came from, so after creating the posting, I Googled his name and found a few places. One had an email address for Mr. Lebeau, and thus I emailed him to ask permission to use

Laurent focuses on all aspects of femdom, and has excellent art. Some readers may be attracted to his dressing men in woman's clothing, while dominating and spanking them. Some might fantasize about a younger woman spanking an older man. Being truthful, some of his art is not to my liking, but that is when he has a girl watching a older man being spanked.

One fun idea is that Laurent is not afraid of showing the dominant woman holding the man's erection while guiding him over her knee.

In my opinion, a far more erotic way than simply pulling him into position by his ear. The sexual aspect of spanking and domination is always present.

A google search on the artist's name brings up a number of sites where his artwork can be viewed, and possibly purchased.

Click on the following link to see his most current art. Laurent Lebeau artwork

I have also found a myspace site that Laurent has! Laurent describes himself:
I am from France. I enjoy travelling a lot being both a writer and artist. I find my inspiration in all the thing I see around me. I have seen many landscapes, many people, many feelings and they are all my unique richness I am a graphic artist of the wonderful Fetish World and I illustrate fantasies and decorate playspaces... I am into the ''scene'' I invite you to discover more...

If you are a member of yahoo groups, then you could join his Yahoo Group!
After a letter back and forth, I received the following:
" Okay I send you a series of spanking discipline artworks and you can take my info in my website... Please mention I will be in art show next Thursday 28th 2009 New York City... for who want attend. free participation upon reservation
all my best Laurent"

Laurent is mentioning " The Fetish Marathon 2009 in New York City, Thursday May 28th, through Sunday May 31. Laurent also wrote: "Please mention I will be in artshow next Thursday 28th 2009 New York City... for who want attend. free participation upon reservation." Unfortunately, I do not know the address of the artshow.

So. Laurent has sent me about twenty drawings with permission to use them on this blog only.
I will use a few at a time over the next few months. The choices for today were of a man, cross dressing, but not totally unhappy with this aspect, if you look closely at the last drawing.

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Saturday, August 12, 2017

Humor Friday + Advantages of a adult email address

You might be starting to realize that my sense of humor is not necessarily the same as yours. Our likes and dislikes are possibly different. The fact that everyone is different makes life interesting. There is not only the Mars and Venus type scenario, but no two people are ever truly the same. The following cartoon from I find hilarious.
The following photo is why I believe we need FREEDOM FROM RELIGION!
Adult separate email account: I enjoy having a spanking and adult minded email account. When privacy exists at home, (not meaning I hide from Lynn, but that no others are around), it is fun to check my spanking related dwcmike account for readers comments, personal emails, and sites I have joined simply for the content of their emails. I would never do this type of activity from my normal email account. One slip, and your private life is toast.
As Hermione commented:
It takes very little time to set up a profile, and you don't really have to bother with a picture. Choose a fictitious name. Now's your chance to be whomever you want to be!
Just make sure you first have an email account that's strictly for your private blogging posts.

Another example:
If you visit this site, and then subscribe to their email service (free of course), they will send you a few pictures and a few videos each and every week. Now, the site is women being spanked, but I truly enjoy spanking, and I would personally rather see a woman's wonderful body and booty, than a male's anytime.

Back to the humor: (meet the twins)
I will try to give more reasons for a separate email address for adult content in a few days.
bottoms up

Thursday, August 10, 2017

Male Submission in advertisements

I thought I would post a few pictures just for your amusement, or titillation.
Let your imagination GUESS what is being sold in this advertisement.
No matter what age you might be, if you are alive, these Jordache jeans look great!
Have a fun weekend
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Monday, August 07, 2017

Would you admit that you are spanked

The questions are:

1. Has anyone ever seen your bottom after it has been spanked, and seen traces or marks from the spanking?

2. If they have, and asked, "what happened to you?", would you respond that your partner has spanked you, and this is the result. Furthermore, I accept her right to spank me whenever she feels it is necessary. We are more in love than ever because she spanks me.

Evan said in a comment to a previous posting:

1. Quite possibly: The day we went to sandy Hook, I didn't see anyone I knew. I sunbathed with a white sun hat sort of concealing my face (covering the eyes).
In the changing room at the gym i have complied with her requirements and do not try to conceal either the submission shavings or the marks on my buttocks. I am never sure how obvious they still are after a day or two, I notice them but because I am looking. I also think that as the years go by it is less uncomfortable to display shaven genitals, since it is becoming very common, if anything it makes me part of the younger crowd since 20s and 30s seem to do it almost routinely not to please a dominant partner.

2. I have promised that if asked i will say that I was spanked and that she was right to do it because I deserved it. However, that has never happened. No-one ever asked.

My response:
1. I have been at the gym when spanking marks are still showing, but in the change room I try to stay in a corner so that no one sees while I change. I, however, do shower in the public area, and a hot shower re-ignites the reddness in my bottom, so it probably has been seen.

2. If asked, I would respond yes, depending on who asked.
A stranger while we are out of town, definitely yes.
A close friend, yes.
Someone I know in sports, but not a close friend, no.

I have changed. Writing this blog has helped, reading other people's blogs has helped, and personal advice from Aunt Kay has helped. I am no longer ashamed that I am spanked, and actually quite proud that I accept being spanked, such that I would probably say yes in most circumstances.

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Sunday, August 06, 2017

misty eyes

Misty Eyes (Wednesday Jan 11)

The intensity of the chastisement in my spankings is definitely increasing, such that this was the first ever spanking by my wife that left me with misty eyes. Our son had gone out on a few messages, and Lynn suggested that a spanking was in order, but that we didn’t know when our son would be back.. I assured her that we had at least another ten minutes, so she should spank me immediately if she felt it would be useful. Lynn agreed.

What I thought would be a quick spanking turned out to be a very strict, no nonsense, slow and intense spanking. I was requested to get the bath brush, and Lynn immediately sat down on the bed. No time was wasted obtaining the spanking chair, nor getting the shoes that Lynn normally wears, simply lower your pants and underwear, and bend over her awaiting lap.

Slow (every two to three seconds), regular hard swats were methodically applied to my bottom, alternating from cheek to cheek. Little pause existed between the first ten, and the next set that followed. The lecture was equally slow, followed by a few quicker spanks at the end of the sentence for emphasis. My ears were well tuned to everything Lynn was saying, and also in case I heard the garage door opening, which would signal our son's return. [No such luck]

The spanks continued past forty, with real arm movement and gusto, before a short pause occurred. Lynn, however, informed me she was just resting, and that the spanking was not over.

Whap! The spanks started on the top of the back of my legs, and the crease where the legs join the buttocks. One trick that I have used to lessen the severity is to mentally count the strokes, but by this time I had totally lost count. This is a behaviour that I am trying to stop, but re-appears during an intense spanking.

Somewhere about this time, I could feel my eyes getting misty. My butt was extremely sore, my legs had been kicking a bit, and I am uncertain if I was saying ouch when the spanks were landing.

One more brief pause, and then a flourish of very hard spanks ended the spanking. This was the most spanks I have ever received from the bath brush, and quite possibly from any spanking instrument that we own. My buns were beet red, with an ashen color in the middle of the red. If you have seen the pictures I previously posted, this was much more significant than those pictures. Lynn admired her handiwork, but no time existed for any love-making. We cuddled, and told each other how much we love each other, and I thanked her for taking the time to spank me whenever needed.

We heard the garage door open, and our son had returned.

Four hours later, I looked at my bottom, and it was still extremely red, and the ashen part was now completely red also. I was reminded of the spanking each time I sat down.

When going to bed, about ten hours after the spanking, my bottom was still significantly red, although the back of the legs had returned to a normal color. Lynn looked at my bottom, but not sympathetically, more in an admiring tribute to her handy work, or should I more correctly state her brush work.

If the spanking had continued, I believe the possibility strongly exists that I would have been crying, without mentally willing myself into that state.

The make-up sex that accompanies every spanking, had to wait a day, but was tremendous the next evening.


Lynn is now very comfortable spanking me when she feels it is needed, and does not need me to suggest that I be spanked if a disagreement arises,

Lynn is much more assertive, but fair in being assertive, which I truly appreciate. Many times in the past, I have used my assertiveness to get my own way, even when that was not the best solution to the problem. This no longer happens.

Lynn playfully pats my bottom at times, which serves as both sexually stimulating touching, but also as a reminder of what could happen. Occasionally this bottom patting occurs in public, which really startles me.

Lynn is becoming a true DWC woman, and this gives me great pleasure.

Aside: Last night she used her stern voice to ask me to come upstairs please, and I scurried upstairs. The tap drips in the bathtub, and she wanted to make me aware that I should get it fixed sooner than later. She had been telling me about it for maybe a few weeks or more. Our son was at home, so nothing progressed into the spanking mode, but I am reasonably certain that if we had been alone, I would have been spanked then and there, and warned of a repeat spanking if it wasn’t fixed very soon. I intend to call a plumber today, if I am not confident to be able to fix it myself.

Bottoms up

Saturday, August 05, 2017

bend over more, and put your bottom out

Two quick spankings occurred on Saturday. An unfortunate choice of words in the morning had my wife indicating she wanted to spank me for them, but a family memeberwas nearby at the time. We have agreed that it is inappropriate for us to excuse ourselves immediately when my wife is upset, and go upstairs, close the door, put on music, and then return a couple of minutes later.

Alone shortly thereafter, but my wife was in the midst of cooking, so my wife contented herself with my baring my bottom, bending over slightly, and being chastised with about eight swift solid spanks with the soup stirrer. They really sting, because it is light, wooden, and easy to swing swiftly. One would think that the hole would lessen the effect, but it amplifies the effect for all those unaware of a holey spanking utensil. The clinical explanation is that the air can escape when the implement catches your bottom, thus the solid wood part makes far greater contact. A paddle without holes, in effect, creates a small layer of air that gets trapped between your bottom and the paddle, thus minimizing some of the impact of the spank. She stated that that was all the time she had to deal with me FOR NOW!

Baring the bottom: I usually wear track pants around the house, so it is a very simple matter to lower them and the underwear that is beneath. Thus, any spanks being given can be given on the bare in absolutely no time, and covered up immediately.

My wife had finished cooking, and we were upstairs in our bedroom when I suggested that I hope the spanking before solved the problem, but if it didn’t would she please deal with it now, instead of harboring any ill feelings. She agreed, and proceeded to take out the bath brush. One look this time at my clothing, informed me to lower my clothes, and another nod of the head informed me to bend over.

BUT THIS TIME WAS DIFFERENT. MY WIFE STATED TO BEND OVER MORE, AND PUT YOUR BUM OUT. She has never before stated this, and when about to receive spanks from the bath brush, I have tried to stay as upright as possible. My method has been to keep my hands on the counter, and my arms reasonably straight, giving an upright target.. This time, I was in the classic completely bent at the waist, for a swinging bath brush. When leaning on the counter with my elbows resting on the counter, and my head almost touching my arms she stated, THAT’S BETTER!” The feeling of being totally exposed, at her request, and awaiting her spanks was erotically frightening. She then proceeded to give me numerous full swinging spanks, which really got the message across, and elicited groans from me. When she stopped my bottom was red and sore, and I had truly felt each and every spank. We hugged and I thanked her for taking the time to solve our problem.

This is a new step in our evolution. She has realized that how far I bend will affect how significant her spanks are, and she is willing to take the lead and determine exactly how she wants my bottom presented for her attention. OUCH!

Love making that night was thrilling, and enhanced by my wife now teasing me a little about how she would bare my bottom when she felt it was needed, and spank my naughty bottom. She decided to orally please me, and allowed my cum to fill her mouth without missing a stroke. She swallowed most of the cum, and we French kissed sharing the rapture and the taste. I, then returned the pleasure orally for her, with her having a most rapturous climax.

So, progress goes in very small steps, then takes a gigantic leap.
Who knows what the future will unfold.

Bottoms up

Friday, August 04, 2017

The Queen has Ruled

The Queen has declared this photo opportunity day. She has declared that....Mike

Thursday, August 03, 2017

The Cane

At my suggestion, my wife is experimenting with one of two nylon canes that we own. [purchased from the DWC website]

The description of the cane that we are using is as follows: "The Buggy Whip is 28" long, thin, and extremely flexible. The exceptional flexibility of this cane makes it a very interesting implement. The cane flexes on your back swing and just leaps forward as you deliver the stroke. With a little practice you will become very comfortable using this cane and you will enjoy the drama of it's swishy-flexy motion as it rushes toward its waiting target."

Why are we using this? With our son back at home today, we do not want a repeat of the grumpy attitude that I developed during the past month. Without the easy opportunity of being spanked, the attitude did not improve. Thus, an effective little session with the cane can be done in our upstairs bathroom, in less than a minute.

My wife agreed that another spanking was needed, and she took charge as we entered the bedroom. I was informed to retrieve the cane, and disrobe from the waist down. She requested that I kneel on our bed, with three pillows in front of me to place my arms on. She first moved the cane up and down my bottom, giving me a feel of the cane, maybe steading her resolve, and increasing both of our anticipation of what was about to occur.

Lynn administered 12 strokes of the cane, with a few seconds between each stroke. One difference of the bath brush to the cane is that the bite is more severe, and you can feel it burn. The seconds between allows the burn to become more intense, without becoming numb. A few strokes were with some force, but many were not. The strokes with strength hurt significantly, and definitely focus your attention.

This will need practice, as Lynn is reluctant to spank solidly, and in many ways I am grateful for this. She has absolutely no reluctance to spank as hard as she wants with the bath brush, and my bottom has been red the day later. However, with the cane, there were no marks when Lynn had finished the spanking, but a burning sensation did still last for most of the day.

Eventually, Lynn will probably be comfortable leaving red stripes, and both I and my bottom will be very sorry.

However, this was an excellent start to having a readily available solution to a problem if it is needed.

I thanked her for the spanking, and the love making that followed was tremendous. After xx years of marriage, we are more adventurous and amorous than ever before. We started by kissing, which lead to me moving lower sucking and kissing Lynn's breasts and paying special attention to her nipples, and then moving lower to her vagina. When Lynn was on the verge of orgasm, we stopped to attempt to mimic the accompanying position. Due to her having immensely increased her flexibility by taking aerobatic and yoga exercises at the gym, this position was easily accomplished, and enthusiastically used. I could not reach around to fondle her clit, but we both had a wonderful time, and I had a mind blowing orgasm. We then returned to my going down orally on my wife, and the taste of some of my cum mixed with her juices was great, and her almost immediate orgasm was fantastic.

This loving experience was followed later in the evening with a lobster dinner and white wine, which put a perfect ending to a wonderfully loving day. The spanking had forgiven specific sins, and been a prelude to fantastic sex, and a great evening.

Since that night, I have had two more visits( separate occasions) by the cane, which I will describe in the next couple of posts. [when availability of the computer alone occurs]

For extra ideas in sexually enjoying each other, we strongly recommend Cosmopolitan's "The Cosmo Kama Sutra - 77 mind-blowing sex positions". Buy it for your lover for Valentine's day, neither of you will regret it. This photo came from page 59 I believe, and they describe hold to achieve the position,and the relative difficulty, and the :> rewards :>

The items purchased from DWc are no longer avaialbe, as this post comes from 2006.
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