4 quick spanks

Anytime it is felt necessary, Lynn is willing to relieve minor frustration with a few spanks.
We were in the bathroom, and I had just finished a shower, and was drying off.[that is, totally naked] Thus, for some valid reason (however, I have already forgotten the reason) Lynn felt it was necessary to give a few reminder spanks. This time Lynn used the plastic hairbrush, which is mostly open with just individual bristles, such that the air rushes through it, and the only resistance to stopping it was my bottom. Partially bent over, Lynn delivered two strokes to each upper cheek, and the area turned bright red immediately. Lynn only connected with the top part of the hairbrush, thus all the force was contained to a very small area. She resisted the temptation to do more, because I had a doctor's appointment the next day, and she didn't want visible marks that would need explaining.

A spanking when needed (real a quick reminder, or just for play), or even when totally no reason exists, is a loving reminder of how much we care for each other.

bottoms up
Mike

taking the edge off grumpiness

Yesterday morning, Lynn stated just before I was to go out on errands, that I had been grumpy the night before, so we should have a little session with the food stirrer before I left.

I must say that I am out of practice of being spanked, so I tried bending over the kitchen counter immediately, with my jeans on. Lynn, however, stated that 'on the bare' would be much better.

I lowered my pants and underpants, and bent over again.

Lynn delivered about twelve hard strokes with the food stirrer, and they were effective. She informed me that I had everything to be happy about, and nothing to cause me to be grumpy.

Lynn asked while I was about to pull up my clothes if anything was stirring. This resulted in the aftercare actually having a soft kiss to each cheek to make it feel better, and a casual long kiss and then suck of my hardening prick. I was then informed to put it away, and save it for later.

Having only been spanked once by hand in the last three weeks, and then really none for three weeks before that, my bottom finds any spanks much more meaningful. I believe that a bottom can become hardened to spanks if delivered daily.


I can promise you that my bottom is in for a major re-tuning over the next few weeks.

until next time

bottoms up
Red / Mike

LA CANE une autre fois

Well, I thought my limited French might catch your attention, exactly as the cane has captured Lynn's attention.

Yesterday, my weight was up immensely, which makes absolutely no sense whatsoever. This might mean that we have to take a different approach to losing weight, or simply I might have to stop eating.

I informed Lynn of my weight, and Lynn informed me to get the cane. No waiting around this time. Unfortunatley, the position of me bending, supporting my upper body with my hands on a chair, was not protective of my back. We tried my supporting my entire upper body on a counter, but there was no swing room for Lynn to use the cane.

Lynn, however, remembered that Aunt Kay had stated when we visited that another equally effective way is that I should lay on a bed, with my bottom propped up by pillows. No strain on the back, just on my bottom. [This proves that Lynn is thinking back to the visit to Aunt Kay, and benefitting from her experience.]

Now, the bad point. Lynn stated that maybe the spankings are not working effectively enough because of the sex we have most times immediately after the spanking. Thus, this morning, there would be the spanking, but no sex immediatley following, and as it ended up, we were up very late, and went to sleep with just a cuddle.

We went into the bedroom, Lynn carrying the cane, and I put two pillows on top of each other. I suggested to Lynn that she should try a few practice strokes on the pillows, because this was a different motion than when I was standing bent over at the waist.

Lynn did a few tentative strokes, then smacked the pillows with considerable force, and a loud thud. Lynn cheerfully stated that she was ready, and I slowly lowered my clothes, baring my bottom, and then placed myself on top of the pillows. Lynn was ready, but I was not looking forward to the experience.

Fortunately, Lynn did not cane my bottom as hard as she had the pillows, and gave a few strokes of a very timid nature. No reaction on my part made Lynn aware that she was being timid, such that she stated maybe we will do a few more after she had gotten to six. Another eight or so had her getting a feel for swing and distance, and the last couple received a reaction from me.

The strength of those last two strokes will probably be the starting weight for the next spanking.

When finished, Lynn stated I could get up, and I thanked her for spanking me. Lynn responded that I was welcome, and left the room to continue her day, leaving me to straighten the bed and put the cane away.

The remainder of the day went very pleasantly. What will happen today is probably a repeat of yesterday, because yesterday's immediate spanking was because my weight had gone up, but today is the routine of every second day. Maybe bread and water is the solution.

bottoms up
Red / Mike

more serious discipline

Yesterday, was the "every second day" in our regime of spankings to increase motivation to lose weight. Lynn is increasing the motivation with every spanking.

Since returning home from the business trip, we have moved up the scale from the small hairbrush, to 'old reliable', then to the bath brush, then the 'holy terror'.

Although I have lost some weight, it isn't moving much, and some keeps getting put back on, so increased motivation has been Lynn's goal.

Last night, Lynn in a very happy, cheerfully smiling mood, stated 'it's time for your spanking'! Lynn actually then proceeded to give me a choice, or either be spanked now, and then have dinner, or wait until after dinner. I chose now.

Lynn suggested that maybe she should use the cane! I responded that maybe could she re-read some on Aunt Kay's "Effective Caning Techniques", and practice a little before using the cane. Lynn initialially stated no, 'get a leather thing', but before I had retrieved a leather paddle she changed her mind, and stated get the manual and a cane for me to use.

I retrieved both, then setup a chair that I would bend over, and finally placed a pillow on the chair
where my bottom would be. Lynn picked up both the manual and the cane, aptly named by Aunt Kay as 'hollerin hollow'.

Lynn read a little, especially about positioning herself, and I helped adjust her directions. She then stated she would be fine, and would call me when she was ready. I went and stood in a corner in the next room. While there, I heard a number of solid thuds on the pillow, knowing fully that this practice would soon be reality on my bottom. This was not a very fun listening experience.

Lynn requested I return, and promptly had me standing bare at the waist and bent over the chair, using my hands to support myself. What followed were six smart strokes. They stung, but not as much as the holy terror or bathbrush, but then again, it was only six and Lynn is learning. The bathbrush and every other implement is used for many more spanks, obviously. These cane strokes were not as hard as what Aunt Kay had applied as just part of the spanking lesson she had given to me, in demonstrating how to use various spanking implements to Lynn.

I am certain that Lynn will learn how to use this cane even more effectively with practice. (my bottom being the practice ground.)

Lynn then informed me that she was going to take a bath, and then we would make love. She read the Cosmo Kama Sutra[77 mind blowing postions] [available at amazon.com for 12.48, i just checked] that I mentioned maybe a year ago, and we tried a new positon as part of our love making that was really tremendous. Page 79, the rock and roll. The warmth still in my bottom attested to the fact that the cane had done it's job.


If you do not own a cane, I recommend that you click the link to check out this cane. If you are worried that it might be opened by customs, Aunt Kay nicely describes it as an educational pointer, and the likelyhood of it being opened by customs is about nil.

We have purchased all three canes that we own from Aunt Kay's website.

the following description.

Hollerin' Hollow is a 28" long cane with a stiff character. It's impact is approximately twice that of other canes and it possesses an authority that announces "this is punishment, young man." The woman who wields Hollerin' Hollow will be well served in her efforts to build character in her husband. She will definitely receive the respect she demands. $28 plus shipping

I will post my EXTREMELY POSITIVE thoughts on Aunt Kay's Effective Caning Techniques in the next few days, and why you should purchase it.

The spankings are effective, but maybe sex immediately afterwards is fighting against there being totally effective.

bottoms up
Red / Mike

last spanking for 2006

Twas the night before New Year's Eve
and all through the house,
not a creature was stirring,
except for Lynn, her leather straps and paddles, and myself.

Lynn is really returning to the DWC fold with enthusiasm, as slowly, we evolve into being together without family again. It has been wonderful having close family visiting with us, and our son home for the holidays.

In private, Lynn has reminded me that once everyone has gone, she wil be free to spank me whenever it is needed. This could be quite often in the short term as some of my less admirable habits have returned. I am certain that a few spankings will have us completely on track. However, some spankings may occur simply because Lynn is in the mood to spank me. I am loving the affectionate pats she gives to my bottom almost daily while in private.



Oh the weather outside is frightful,
but inside activities are (mostly) delightful,
because no matter how hard the rain falls, (and blows and gusts and blows)
the spanks reign :> the spanks reign :> The SPANKS REIGN :> :> :>

This last spanking had me bare bottom as usual, with Lynn deciding I should lie on the bed, after retrieving the leather implements for her. Lynn is now able to spank with abandon with these instruments, knowing that they are not dangerous as a wooden bath brush might be. Also, with her standing, she has complete freedom of movement, as opposed to when I am laying over her lap.

I miss the intimacy of laying over her lap, but the spanking is usually more intense laying on the bed, and Lynn relishes using three different implements. (The leather strap, leather finger strap, and the leather paddle) Lynn is becoming very accomplished with these.

The ensuing make-up loving sex was tremendous, which eventually involved my orally bringing Lynn to climax, followed by her taking the on top position, grinding my sore bottom onto the bed, before doing her exquisite squats bringing me to a thunderous climax.

So, a Happy New Year to all, and may all your spankings be followed by wonderful sexual experiences.

And may you be in love forever...

bottoms up
Red / Mike

No nonsense spanking

Lynn came home yesterday, and I went to greet her as usual. This has become a habit, instead of simply calling out "Hi" and continuing whatever I was doing. This has been one of Lynn's ideas, that whoever comes home should be greeted and share an affectionate kiss.

It is a good idea, but if I forget, a hairbrush is always a alternative response to a lack of a proper greeting, instead of a kiss.

This time, I greeted Lynn and asked how she was, and her response was that she was fine. In addition, she added that when she has put her coat and parcels away, she was going to spank me. This was totally unexpected!

I asked if I could help with her coat, and also requested whatI had done wrong. Lynn responded she would tell me while spanking me!!!

We almost immediately went upstairs, where I was informed to get the spanking chair, and carry it so that the wheels did not make marks in the carpet. Lynn requested the bath brush, and when seated, informed me to lower my pants and underwear, and get over her lap.The spanking started immediately with enthusiasm. The spanks struck home often before the explanation was given. I was informed that Lynn had decided in the morning after I had gone to work that she was fed up of my taking some food from the kitchen and walking around the house eating it without a plate. Thus crumbs were forever dropping on the floor. The spanking picked up in intensity as Lynn vented some of her pent up frustrations.

I very readily promised to discontinue this practice immediately, and after a number of more spanks, Lynn finally stopped. I thanked Lynn for the spanking, and we kissed. This progressed into very passionate kissing, followed by wonderful sucking, licking, and exceptionally passionate sex.

The aftermath, one day later, is that we are more affectionate than ever, and I am careful what I eat, and where. Also, although the spanking occured around 6Pm, my bottom was still red when we went to bed.

May all your little problems, insignificant to the spanked husband or spanked wife, be solved in such a wonderful method of spank and change your ways, instead of constant battling or arguing.

bottoms up
Mike/Red

red and white

Well, Lynn yesterday very justifiably gave me a bare bottom spanking! Sometimes, my responses are sarcastic, and they inevitable have me regretting what I sometimes think is humor.Lynn lay on the bed, and I lay over her knees, while she used the wooden hair brush that we own. Repeated spanks to the same spot, before moving to a new spot, certainly changed my attitude to using sarcastic remarks.

Today, had a repeat performance, and it is only mid-afternoon. This time it was once again the hair brush, which is made by a company called Goody. She picked it up and said GOODY, both in delight to be about to solve a problem, and humor in using the name of the company which so coincides with the effect it had on her, and the effect she was intending to make on me.

Hopefully I will earn soon!

bottoms up
Mike

misty eyes

Misty Eyes (Wednesday Jan 11)

The intensity of the chastisement in my spankings is definitely increasing, such that this was the first ever spanking by my wife that left me with misty eyes. Our son had gone out on a few messages, and Lynn suggested that a spanking was in order, but that we didn’t know when our son would be back.. I assured her that we had at least another ten minutes, so she should spank me immediately if she felt it would be useful. Lynn agreed.

What I thought would be a quick spanking turned out to be a very strict, no nonsense, slow and intense spanking. I was requested to get the bath brush, and Lynn immediately sat down on the bed. No time was wasted obtaining the spanking chair, nor getting the shoes that Lynn normally wears, simply lower your pants and underwear, and bend over her awaiting lap.

Slow (every two to three seconds), regular hard swats were methodically applied to my bottom, alternating from cheek to cheek. Little pause existed between the first ten, and the next set that followed. The lecture was equally slow, followed by a few quicker spanks at the end of the sentence for emphasis. My ears were well tuned to everything Lynn was saying, and also in case I heard the garage door opening, which would signal our son's return. [No such luck]

The spanks continued past forty, with real arm movement and gusto, before a short pause occurred. Lynn, however, informed me she was just resting, and that the spanking was not over.

Whap! The spanks started on the top of the back of my legs, and the crease where the legs join the buttocks. One trick that I have used to lessen the severity is to mentally count the strokes, but by this time I had totally lost count. This is a behaviour that I am trying to stop, but re-appears during an intense spanking.

Somewhere about this time, I could feel my eyes getting misty. My butt was extremely sore, my legs had been kicking a bit, and I am uncertain if I was saying ouch when the spanks were landing.

One more brief pause, and then a flourish of very hard spanks ended the spanking. This was the most spanks I have ever received from the bath brush, and quite possibly from any spanking instrument that we own. My buns were beet red, with an ashen color in the middle of the red. If you have seen the pictures I previously posted, this was much more significant than those pictures. Lynn admired her handiwork, but no time existed for any love-making. We cuddled, and told each other how much we love each other, and I thanked her for taking the time to spank me whenever needed.

We heard the garage door open, and our son had returned.

Four hours later, I looked at my bottom, and it was still extremely red, and the ashen part was now completely red also. I was reminded of the spanking each time I sat down.

When going to bed, about ten hours after the spanking, my bottom was still significantly red, although the back of the legs had returned to a normal color. Lynn looked at my bottom, but not sympathetically, more in an admiring tribute to her handy work, or should I more correctly state her brush work.

If the spanking had continued, I believe the possibility strongly exists that I would have been crying, without mentally willing myself into that state.

The make-up sex that accompanies every spanking, had to wait a day, but was tremendous the next evening.

Conclusion:

Lynn is now very comfortable spanking me when she feels it is needed, and does not need me to suggest that I be spanked if a disagreement arises,

Lynn is much more assertive, but fair in being assertive, which I truly appreciate. Many times in the past, I have used my assertiveness to get my own way, even when that was not the best solution to the problem. This no longer happens.

Lynn playfully pats my bottom at times, which serves as both sexually stimulating touching, but also as a reminder of what could happen. Occasionally this bottom patting occurs in public, which really startles me.

Lynn is becoming a true DWC woman, and this gives me great pleasure.

Aside: Last night she used her stern voice to ask me to come upstairs please, and I scurried upstairs. The tap drips in the bathtub, and she wanted to make me aware that I should get it fixed sooner than later. She had been telling me about it for maybe a few weeks or more. Our son was at home, so nothing progressed into the spanking mode, but I am reasonably certain that if we had been alone, I would have been spanked then and there, and warned of a repeat spanking if it wasn’t fixed very soon. I intend to call a plumber today, if I am not confident to be able to fix it myself.

Bottoms up
Mike

bend over more, and put your bottom out

Two quick spankings occurred on Saturday. An unfortunate choice of words in the morning had my wife indicating she wanted to spank me for them, but a family memeberwas nearby at the time. We have agreed that it is inappropriate for us to excuse ourselves immediately when my wife is upset, and go upstairs, close the door, put on music, and then return a couple of minutes later.

Alone shortly thereafter, but my wife was in the midst of cooking, so my wife contented herself with my baring my bottom, bending over slightly, and being chastised with about eight swift solid spanks with the soup stirrer. They really sting, because it is light, wooden, and easy to swing swiftly. One would think that the hole would lessen the effect, but it amplifies the effect for all those unaware of a holey spanking utensil. The clinical explanation is that the air can escape when the implement catches your bottom, thus the solid wood part makes far greater contact. A paddle without holes, in effect, creates a small layer of air that gets trapped between your bottom and the paddle, thus minimizing some of the impact of the spank. She stated that that was all the time she had to deal with me FOR NOW!

Baring the bottom: I usually wear track pants around the house, so it is a very simple matter to lower them and the underwear that is beneath. Thus, any spanks being given can be given on the bare in absolutely no time, and covered up immediately.

My wife had finished cooking, and we were upstairs in our bedroom when I suggested that I hope the spanking before solved the problem, but if it didn’t would she please deal with it now, instead of harboring any ill feelings. She agreed, and proceeded to take out the bath brush. One look this time at my clothing, informed me to lower my clothes, and another nod of the head informed me to bend over.

BUT THIS TIME WAS DIFFERENT. MY WIFE STATED TO BEND OVER MORE, AND PUT YOUR BUM OUT. She has never before stated this, and when about to receive spanks from the bath brush, I have tried to stay as upright as possible. My method has been to keep my hands on the counter, and my arms reasonably straight, giving an upright target.. This time, I was in the classic completely bent at the waist, for a swinging bath brush. When leaning on the counter with my elbows resting on the counter, and my head almost touching my arms she stated, THAT’S BETTER!” The feeling of being totally exposed, at her request, and awaiting her spanks was erotically frightening. She then proceeded to give me numerous full swinging spanks, which really got the message across, and elicited groans from me. When she stopped my bottom was red and sore, and I had truly felt each and every spank. We hugged and I thanked her for taking the time to solve our problem.

This is a new step in our evolution. She has realized that how far I bend will affect how significant her spanks are, and she is willing to take the lead and determine exactly how she wants my bottom presented for her attention. OUCH!

Love making that night was thrilling, and enhanced by my wife now teasing me a little about how she would bare my bottom when she felt it was needed, and spank my naughty bottom. She decided to orally please me, and allowed my cum to fill her mouth without missing a stroke. She swallowed most of the cum, and we French kissed sharing the rapture and the taste. I, then returned the pleasure orally for her, with her having a most rapturous climax.

So, progress goes in very small steps, then takes a gigantic leap.
Who knows what the future will unfold.


Bottoms up
Mike

husband tamer

The best spankings to receive, are when they are least expected. No time exists to prepare yourself, simply to bare yourself.

Lynn surprised me yesterday morning by stating we have something to talk about. She immediately sat on the bed, and requested me to get the husband tamer paddle.

We have never really used this paddle, so my wife asking me to retrieve it by name meant she had not only decided to spank me, but she had already planned how she was going to make her ideas known to me.


The pictures show that this is an effective spanking implement, which I was to have my first real taste of since purchasing it.

How did we come to purchase it: This I will save for a later post

The spanking was for a bottom still sore from the Saturday night bottom out bath brushing. Bare bottom, over the knees, no warmup, just correction. The sin: we had agreed on one Scotch and ice before dinner, and one wine bottle for dinner. At the table with the other couple, I asked if we should open a second bottle of wine when the first was finished. It was agreed not to, but at that point the die was cast. Lynn impressed upon my bottom that it was demeaning to discuss another bottle, that we had already agreed on the amount as considerate hosts for the other couple that would drive home later. Even though the answer was no more wine, I should never have asked. We also had one Drambuie with ice after dinner while looking at digital photos of our last vacation together.

The spanking was different, a totally different feel, catching both cheeks at the same time, and more stingy than the bath brush. Equally effective as many spanks rained down on my bottom.

Lynn had thought out this spanking, because when it stopped, she stated that it was my turn to please her. We cuddled, then proceeded to my slowly kissing all over her body. She eventually straddled my face, and I, while lying on my back, greedily licked and sucked her cunt, while fondling her ass and breasts. With a finger inside her pussy, and the other hand fondling her nipples, she had a very guttural and loud climax. When the throes of orgasm subsided, she lowered herself downwards lying on top of me, and guiding my prick into her cunt. We fucked and kissed, while she ground her vagina into me. My butt was sore, and this action increased the effect, and the orgasm that soon followed was tremendous....

Spankings followed by sex are fantastic. Problems are solved, and the makeup sex is fantastic.

Unfortunately, due to another fault one hour later, I was quickly bared and bent over, receiving ten quick strong spanks with the bath brush. that problem was then put behind us also. How significant was that problem? At the time of this writing, I cannot remember what it was for, but the problem was dealt with, and the remainder of the day was a continuance of our love affair.

bottoms up

Mike

Grouchiness methodically spanked away, love making just as thorough

Monday, Oct 24

Last night(saturday), all grumpiness was completely spanked out of my mind and body.

Lynn put on a sexy one piece black leather outfit, that narrows into a thong. She looked fantastic, and actually agreed for me to take a few pictures of her holding the bath brush.

Although we took the pictures in the bedroom, we walked downstairs to the main floor for the spanking. We used the front room adjacent to the front door, and I am beginning to worry that the length of the spanking, the sound of the spanks, my howls, and the lecture occurring during the spanking could actually easily be heard if anyone came to the front door. Do I really want the neighbors to know our secrets? [definitely not]

Lynn's back is almost better, but to protect any strain caused by having me over her lap, I was once again positioned kneeling on the couch, with my bottom positioned outward to meet the bath brush.

Lynn agreed with my suggestion to take a before and after photo, which if edited a little, I might post.

The spanking was the hardest I have ever received. [My spankings when I was a young boy always brought tears, but they were nowhere as strong or as many as the present. When you are a young boy, the baring of your bottom and the spanks overwhelm you easily] {Aside again: we have never spanked our children, and do not advocate spanking children - our youngest is now in his 20's}

The spanks just seemed to keep coming, and at times owwwwwsss escaped from my throat. [I know I need to be less stoic when spanked, and I will have to work on that.] The spanking alternated from cheek to cheek, the fire in my bottom blazed, and as my owwwwws increased the spanks lessened a little for three or four spanks, but then picked up strength again. {almost like these hurricanes going over land, but then reviving themself over water.}

One would think that Lynn standing to one side, and swinging the bath brush would be sufficient, but at one point she stopped, maybe after forty spanks. Lynn stated that she was not finished. I was not to move. She was taking a short rest. The fire really came out in my bottom during that rest, which only consumed maybe forty five seconds, and then the spanking resumed with vigor. This renewed assault really started my owwwws and ouchss. The spanking included a flurry for a finish, and then a few more even stronger wallops while being informed that if I had not lost my grumpiness with this spanking, then I would be spanked again that evening, even if it took another two separate spankings, of greater intensity, to accomplish the task.

My wife took two after photos, and then we retreated to the bedroom. Their we first cuddled, necked, and progressed to my kissing and nibbling on her breasts, before moving to her vagina. I thoroughly enjoy licking and sucking her entire pussy, but then she demanded time to suck and lick my prick. I eventually returned to her vagina, where with one finger inside and my mouth and tongue working feverishly, she had a terrific orgasm. When it subsided, she rolled over on her stomach, and I entered her from behind. She closed her legs, and with my legs straddling her, we fucked blissfully while I nibbled on her neck, until I had an enormous climax.

Four hours later, when going to bed, Lynn remarked on how red my bottom still was. When we awoke the next morning, their was still a significant blush over my entire bottom. Their still remains one red streak on the far side of my right bottom at the present writing, because with her standing on my left, this portion received the strongest strokes. [ physics- the bath brush travelled the farthest distance, achieving the greatest speed before impact.]

When we once again cuddled after making love, all grumpiness had truly disappeared, and has not in the slightest reappeared since then.

Significantly, the bath rush now remains on her dresser in our bedroom. We do not have guests visiting our bedroom, but the brush has obviously never been used in a bath, so it's purpose on her dresser does beg the question as to why it is there?

Lastly, I hope Will allows Janeen the pleasure of a thorough bath brushing in this position, especially since she has suggested the position to me. It is truly memorable. I am sitting typing this on Monday, and easily still feel the sore bottom.

bottoms up, or in this case bottoms out
Mike

still grumpy after all these years

I have been grumpy for the last couple of days. Maybe it is the weather, the October rain, working too much, or who knows what. I have been going to bed earlier, and my wife has stayed up later, so maybe it is the lack of sex, or even the lack of cuddling that I have been missing.

My wife gave me a quick spanking with the bath brush this morning, but a person was coming to our house shortly to do some work, so the spanking was short. It did not relieve the mood.

The probable outcome is a much more vigorous spanking tonight, which hopefully will end my bad mood.

Do spankings work for other people when in a funk. I wonder! Let me know what methods you use to get out of the blahs!!!!!!! ^~^

bottoms up
Mike

Three spankings in 14 hours

Fatigue and the resulting grouchiness has been the cause of my latest spankings. I had worked long hours on Thursday and Friday, but insisted on cooking on Saturday. I wanted to try my hand at making two batches of tomato sauce, which Lynn explained would be an all day event. I argued that it wouldn't. She offered to help, but was unhappy to be cooking the day before a short vacation. I countered that she should go out and let me do it. [I was expecting a stronger spanking, that day, for the previously described over-drinking on one night of vacation. no driving was involved, simply in the lakeside house. Maybe I was a little edgy. I was later to find out that she had mostly forgotten about this spanking. As Bonnie has mused, spankings delayed are spankings denied.]

The cooking went well, but did take a very long time, that is , most of the day. Because I started only in the afternoon, the kitchen was still a mess when my wife came home, and we had more to do with the sauce after dinner. Fatigue led to disagreement, my still denying that it took most of a day to cook this sauce, and an argument about my not cleaning the kitchen and counters properly after finishing the cooking. My wife's back was sore, she had spent most of the afternoon out wonderign around stores, and was tired.

You guessed the result. My wife stated I should accompany her upstairs.

Aside: Wintermute and other sites have suggested that plastic hairbrushes or other spanking plastic (lexan)implements create a strong surface sting, without the dulling effect of wood. In a previous discussion with my wife, I had mentioned that when we first started spankings, she had used a plastic hairbrush that stung like hell, and was very unpleasant. We had moved onto a wood hairbrush from then on. My wife at that time was spanking me to please me, because this was what I wanted. We had not bought into the DWC philosophy, which we are maybe 50% into at the moment. My wife had purchased a small plastic hairbrush today at my urgings.

Spanking number one:

The spanking was OTK, and started with the plastic hairbrush, but her heart was not in the spanking. She quickly switched to the bath brush, but stopped quickly because of my position placing a strain on her back. She briefly lectured about the cooking, the cleanup, the need for a maintenance spanking.

We have rarely used the cane. I suggested she shuld use it for my drinking, but that she should first practice a little. I tried holding a cushion at the height where my bottom would be, but her swats were very erratic. amd could land anywhere. It was decided that I lie on the bed on top of pillows to elevate my bottom. Six quick lightly flicked cane strokes later,and the spanking was over.

I thanked Lynn for the spanking, and the evening continued, without any enthusiasm. The spanking had really not solved the problem, it had mostly been going through the motions. I had asked for the plastic hairbrush, My wife had a sore back, I had asked for the cane, I was directing. This was not a real spanking.

Bedtime spanking:

We lay in bed, and both were still grumpy. [or was it just me?] After cuddling, and laying awake for a while, I asked my wife if she could please spank me. I explained that the previous spanking had not relieved the grumpiness, and stress that I had. She had me retrieve the bath brush, and twenty quick swift spanks followed. These I certainly felt, and I thanked her for the spanking. We then cuddled and went to sleep, one of the extremely rare occurences where a spanking had not been followed up by sex.


The next morning: (Janeen's method)
My wife's back was sore and stiff, and we slowly did everything needed to go away for three days in Seattle. My wife stated that I still seemed grumpy. She believed the spankings had not seemed to work, but stated her back was too sore to take me over her knee. I suggested that the spankings had maybe been too tame, even though I had been spanked twice in three hours the night before. I suggested that I could kneel on the couch, lean forward and stick my bottom out, and she could stand beside the couch and use the bath brush, where she would just have to swing her arm. This was a big mistake. The twenty plus spanks I received were the hardest my wife has ever given me. The spanks were slowly given, with a few seconds between each spank. Occasionally the brush was just rested against my bottom, then brought slowly backwards, until once again moving forward and hitting my bottom. The spanks were agony from the outset. Each one made me regret my foolish mood, and reminded me that my bottom had been tenderized the previous evening. The spanks were all contcentrated in the lower part of my bottom, due to my bent position.

My wife asked if I was getting in a better mood, which I readily and heartedly agreed with. This, however, did not stop the spanks from continuing.

When the spanks finally ended, with a flourish of 4 harder quick spanks, I truly felt that I had been punished.

We left shortly thereafter, and I sat on a very red bottom for the rest of the day. This spanking occured at about 11:00am, but that night before bed my bottom was still a very bright red. We made love passionately that night, all stress and grumpiness removed from my mind and my behaviour.

A shower the next morning brought the bright red color back to my bottom.

I have to thank (?)Janeen for stating that this is her favorite position. I now know the punishment capability when your bottom is so exposed. However, my wife also knows that if she really wants to make a impression, this position will be useful. Also, she has learned that my bottom can take a lot more punishment than she has previously applied, and that no ill effects have occurred. Thus, for better or worse, spankings may have become more meaningful in our life.

bottoms up
Mike

munch reminder

Before going to the previously mentioned munch, my wife followed through on her reminder of who loved me, who was my partner, and also my lover and best friend.

The bathbrush was used, in the familiar method of my being bare bottomed over her knee. The spanking was quick, but vigorously applied, leaving a lasting impression. I was reminded that my bottom was solely for my wife, but more than that all of me, and that I could look during the munch but not touch. Having received a maintenance spanking the previous day, this spanking made a real impression.

During the munch, I constantly felt the reminder spanking while I sat listening to the discussion.

When I returned home later that evening, we made passionate love.

Whether the spankings continue, or become less often, I am so very fortunate to have a wonderful, beautiful wife that I love immensely and entirely, and who loves me.

 

bottoms up
Mike

the stress solution for the season

Well, Lynn is keeping everything toasty on the home front, or shall I say the bottom.

Three days ago, Lynn decided it was necessary to do a quick spanking with Miss Hurley twice, and the food stirrer once during that day.

Two days ago Miss Hurley re-visited my bottom very effectively.

As of time of writing, I have just returned from the kitchen, where Lynn in a very kind and friendly voice asked me to join her for a moment. When I arrived, she picked up the food stirrer, and "the LOOK" told me to bend over with a bare bottom. The food stirrer effectively toasted my bottom, while Lynn informed me why she was unhappy with my behaviour. The spanking ended when Lynn felt the spanking had sufficiently covered the offense.

We seem to be in a cycle where frequent short spankings help keep all stresses of the season under control. It is far better than worrying, getting angry, shouting, arguing, or any other type behaviour that sometimes is the norm for a short period during the holiday season.

OTK : This means something that Only The Kind practice this in their relationship. It is far kinder to solve the problem and forget it, than to dwell on problems, and end up making the problems worse.

Lynn has just once again been ONLY TOO KIND:

She just finished another stronger toasting. The reason is unnecessary to explain, but she entered the room, stated their was one other thing she wants to deal with, and requested I retrieve Miss Hurley for her use. Then it was bare bottom over the sofa, fortunately with the blinds closed, for a very strong and effective dose of Miss Hurley's caresses.

When she finished the spanking and the lecture, Lynn was all smiles. While thanking her, Lynn replied that she has to give me some material to write for my blog, with a devilish smile, and a pleasing lilt in her tone.

Hopefully, all problems are solved, and my bottom can be a spank free zone for the remainder of the day, if not the week.

May you have the good fortune of spanking away the streses of the season
bottoms up
Mike