old postcards

I wish that I had purchased these type postcards when they were available, but they disappeared from stores many years ago... Somehow, a more progressive free love society, but hide away spanking...

The first one is really cute, and can tolerate a little discussion. Is spanking something that comes naturally for the spanker, or does the spanker learn better techniques and effectiveness over time?

To me, when I see a photo of a spanker holding the hairbrush high above their head about to deliver a spank, I feel the force of the spank about to come, and the power of the woman.

I believe that their are tricks to the trade, so to speak, and that a spanker can learn from others, much like any other facet in life.The idea of raising the hand above the shoulder, then thundering it down, has the concept of using your power, and speed increases strength when contact occurs. After seeing Laurie hand spank me a short amount, Lynn has definitely changed her hand spankings to be far more effective. Exactly how, I am uncertain, but I can attest to a stronger spanking whenever the hand is used, even if only to start.
The only negative is that the postcards always talked about bad boys, and I prefer all mention on this blog to be of men. However, this was always the terminology in the past, and mostly referred to men misbehaving like children.
Lynn has changed in that she abhorred that terminology when we first started marital spanking, but now occasionally uses it in a playful way at times.

Would you like to comment.
Can a spanker improve their effectiveness by reading spanking sites for ideas, watching spanking videos, and other places like watching another woman spank a man, or attending a spankfest like Shadowlane?

bottoms up
Mike

book of the day

I found this on another site, a while ago, and unfortunately forget from whence it came. Most of the entries were men or women spanking women. This one I thought you might enjoy.



bottoms up
Mike

Fuller Brush Company

Some original older cartoons sometimes used the travelling saleswoman, who would demonstrate how to use Acme brushes. This was, at least in my imagination, a take off from the Fuller Brush salesman. . Thus, I thought a walk down memory lane would take us today to the fuller brush company, and it's current products.Heritage Hair Care!
Only from Fuller Brush come heirloom-quality hairbrushes with natural beauty and superior performance delivered by these elegantly traditional styles. The Beechwood used in this hairbrush was selected for its beauty and durability. The natural boar bristles distribute your natural hair oils for an all-over silky luster.

If you want to look at the hair brushes, here is the link.

http://www.fuller.com/products_detail.asp?cat=1&subcat=8&id=149&pg=1

Any spanking with a hairbrush, by a determined woman, can be extremely effective. Lynn's use of our small hairbrush recently was very effective.

bottoms up
Mike

re-visiting Veralsi

This first cartoon I found to be wonderful.Humor is even better than spankings, but if you combine the two, it is truly a wonderful World.
I thought I would re-visit the outside of Veralsi's Spanking Showcase, and look at some of the public pictures.
Simply click on the link, and then click enter.
Notice that I always try to take you to the page that requires you to (possibly) read the age requirements, before getting to the site.
The site is predominantly women being spanked, but has a number of sections of women spanking men.
IF anyone has joined this site, please offer a small review for my readers.
I would love a free membership for a week, so that I could then explain more about the pictures, but I am content simply advertising the site by showing a few drawings from the public area.

bottoms up
Mike

The Perpetual Question

A reader wrote this to me privately recently:

Hi Mike: I'm a regular reader of your blog, but I haven't yet disclosed my level of interest to my wife. Thought about it for a long time, but still waiting for the right time. Nevertheless, I'm sure I'm one of many that consider you somewhat of a legend in the F/M spanking scene, and consequently, I want to ask you for your opinion. If you don't find time to respond, it is Ok because I'm sure you receive many similar questions. I'm on a conference call the other day, while working from home, and I hear a little "ahh" from the next room. I listened for a couple of seconds, and realized the vacuuming continued to happen, banging against the wall. So, I knew that whatever happened was not some injury requiring my attention. However, later my wife walked by asking if I heard her make a noise. When I answered yes, she became very angry with me because I did not come running. Two days have passed, and she is still mad at me. She is feeling unimportant and hurt because I did not come to her rescue to make sure she was OK. I'm annoyed at her, because this "needing to be rescued and coddled" has happened numerous times now. While I think it is silly and immature, I find my spanking side wondering if this is a chance to suggest that future situations where she feels I have let her down, be met with spankings. On one hand, I think the notion of always being the victim and making me out to be the bad guy that isn't there for her is ludicrous, but on the other hand, I wonder if I should just suck it up and try and make something positive out of it.

This is where I wonder if you have some advice. You use spankings to solve problems, but do you use them to solve problems of this sort where you might think that you are right and she is wrong? Its funny, but I feel that regardless of who is right and who is wrong, if a spanking is involved, maybe I won't care so much.

Anyway, great blog, and if you have any advice, it is much appreciated.

Thanks, MC.

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Well MC, maybe it is time to re-visit this topic, briefly.

I have no idea of how long you are married, how liberated or rigid your relationship is, and what other factors exist in your lives. All of these might change the answer.

Recommendation One: purchase the "Please spank me" booklet from the http://www.auntkaysdwc.com/   IT will give you a little more confidence, before discussing with your wife.

Recommendation Two: Make certain that there are no problems to speak about for a while, so that the harmonious nature of your marriage is in a good phase. Every relationship has ups and downs, so don't broach the topic when other difficulties are present. Be open and honest with your wife, and bring the elephant out of the closet, and talk about your desires. Go slowly, and give her lots of time to think about it.

Recommendation Three: If she does not categorically dismiss the idea as childish and totally crazy, ask if she wold like to look at the DWC website. Remember to keep stressing that you do NOT want to be treated as a child, that she is NOT replacing your mother, but simply your partner, who may use spankings to create a more harmonious situation whenever she feels it is necessary. It allows her to be in charge, and when upset, have a way to deal with your transgressions.

Recommendation Four: When reading the DWC website, state that much of what is written is excellent, whereas other parts are "too over the top". Give her the power to decide how she might like to start implementing spanking in your relationship. I would also STRONGLY recommend buying the lifestyle kit.

Almost Lastly: Whether you think it trivial or serious, if she thinks you should be spanked for something she thinks is important, you must give up the right to say no! But the lifestyle kit, gives a well thought out plan of how to initiate spakings in your relationship...

Lastly: please start at my blog at the beginning, and skim to find out how spanking has developed between Lynn and I.

DEFINITELY MY LAST THOUGHT FOR NOW!! Nothing you read on this blog, or the DWC website will fit your exact situation. Also, some of what you read may be too extreme, whereas some which you read may be too mild! I find some of the people that wrote in Real People, or who signed the guest book at the Dwc website to be too extreme for our view of DWC. We also do not agree with any drawing of blood. Your partner may not by nature wish to cause pain. The idea of a dwc relationship is something that grows over time, as the improvements in your living together in love blossoms even fuller with spankings.

good luck

bottoms up

RED

A cartoon for ronnie

Enjoy life
Red

spanked hubby the original

Sometimes our bottoms listen better than out ears.....

This is a wonderful drawing, clearly a woman unmoved by her husbands reactions to being spanked.
bottoms up
Mike

taking the edge off grumpiness

Yesterday morning, Lynn stated just before I was to go out on errands, that I had been grumpy the night before, so we should have a little session with the food stirrer before I left.

I must say that I am out of practice of being spanked, so I tried bending over the kitchen counter immediately, with my jeans on. Lynn, however, stated that 'on the bare' would be much better.

I lowered my pants and underpants, and bent over again.

Lynn delivered about twelve hard strokes with the food stirrer, and they were effective. She informed me that I had everything to be happy about, and nothing to cause me to be grumpy.

Lynn asked while I was about to pull up my clothes if anything was stirring. This resulted in the aftercare actually having a soft kiss to each cheek to make it feel better, and a casual long kiss and then suck of my hardening prick. I was then informed to put it away, and save it for later.

Having only been spanked once by hand in the last three weeks, and then really none for three weeks before that, my bottom finds any spanks much more meaningful. I believe that a bottom can become hardened to spanks if delivered daily.


I can promise you that my bottom is in for a major re-tuning over the next few weeks.

until next time

bottoms up
Red / Mike

spanking drawings and photos with text

I thought it was time to show a few more drawings, and photos with text, on our favorite subject.





I can imagine that when the children are all grown, and left the house, a new and unique way of using a spare room might be to roast someone's bottom, and opposed to making it into a all-purpose room.






However, whenever the house is empty, with children having flown the coop, or else off at school and you both have some time off, then this picture with text is perfect for any problem.

This offers sage advice to all spankers.




Solving a problem immediately when you find out is the ideal!

Every action has a re-action!

For two separate offenses, many times it is best to give two separate spankings, maybe separated by only an hour in between. Thus, the spanker is rested, but the spankee will still feel the first spanking, while receiving the second. Double the trouble, double the fun!!!

Planning ahead is always important.


If a wife feels she needs to spank her husband but is alone, a phone call at work will certainly transfer the stress and upset feelings she has to the proper recipient. Why fret all day, when yuo can remove the stress and give it first verbally, and then physically when he gets home.

Doing this while he is at work transfers the stress from you to him, and when he arrives home you know exactly how you intend to discipline him.
So, a thoughtful reminder is :


anytime, anywhere

There were some other good drawings, but they have the man responding as if he is a boy, and the woman although clearly his own age, is talking like the mother. Personally, we feel no need to age play, I am a grown man who is spanked whenever needed, to help maintain a loving and harmonious lifestyle with my wife.

bottoms up
Mike/ Res

a few drawings

I thought I would just attach a couple of drawings. I hope that the artists do not mind.The best way to deliver a warm paddling with the 'holy terror' might be as shown in this drawing by Danny M. Anyone knowing where further art of this nature cna be found should let us all know.



until then

bottoms up

Mike

Cartoons from the past

Well, if we think about it, most of us remember cartoons and drawings of an attractive woman being spanked. Very few existed on public display of a man being spanked! If anyone has some, please scan and send them to me. I will then share them with all my readers.

If I am trying to add little quips, then the second might be the marriage counselor. MAny people profess that this idea solves many marital problems.
As some readers might guess, I dedicate the next cartoon to Penny!
If the next were true, there would be an amazing line for trying to become a teacher.... shucks.. the good old days. These persons depicted would definitely be of universtiy or college age, so no spanking of children.
The last: just keeping order in the house.and remember, don't take spanking too seriously, it can always be for fun as often as possible, as these young women show.
bottoms up
Mike

Reasons why OTK spankings are great

This has been borrowed (that is copied) from the TASKA yahoo group site, for your amusement. The sex of the spanker and spankee has been changed to fit this blog. Posted by "Alice Kerr-Sutherland"

First, they are good for your health.
* The spanker gets a good workout chasing an errant partner, dragging them to the chair, holding then in place despite their struggles, and of course the effort of a truly good spanking.

* For the spankee, the effort of running, struggling, and of course all that kicking and waving arms around. Better than Aerobics!

* Spankees spend more time standing, even dancing frantically. Much healthier activity than sitting. Perhaps we can teach the spank aerobics in gyms? Worlds more fun than step, and way more action than yoga.

* Spanking is great for the circulation. First all the blood rushes to the head as the spankee is positioned over the knee. Then when the spanking begins the blood rushes to the bottom. Soon the face is red with crying and yelling, the heart rate jumps as arms and legs wave and kick. By the end the heart has had an excellent workout.
Again, roll on spank aerobics. (And I intend to patent that. But you can all buy shares.)

* Asthmatics are often told to take up swimming to improve lung capacity. Think of the wonderful benefits of a spanking, plenty of exercise and a good workout for the lungs too, but without all the time spent getting to the pool, changing clothes, drying off, etc.

* Along the same lines, think of aspiring singers. Spankees often hit notes that Opera singers can only dream about. And sustain them for amazingly long periods. The opportunity is there for a truly effective training program.. And there is that improvement in lung capacity again. All that yelling..... it has to pay off.

* Mental agility is improved too. Trying to think up excuses that will work to avoid a spanking, looking for hiding places for contraband, trying to find a loophole in the rules, all keep a spankee alert. And of course the spanker is playing the other side; watching, checking, continually on her toes. That sort of thinking keeps you young.

Secondly, they help you save money.

* Less wear and tear on the furniture. After all, the two of you use only one chair. And afterwards the spankee doesn't sit at all for a while..

* You can examine the carpet for marks and stains while you are down there. Might find a lost pen or a few coins too, if you check around.

* It's a cheap hobby. No equipment at all is required, just a place for the spanker to sit. If he decides to go beyond a hand spanking many appropriate implements are lying around the house, just begging to be used. Much cheaper than the expense of buying golf clubs, scuba gear or electric trains.

* Spankers often find that giving a spanking to that hot red bottom, which is doing all that wriggling on your lap, has a somewhat arousing/ moistening effect. Just a bit. Think of the savings on Viagra. Although, it may be interesting trying to fill the prescription.

Thirdly, they can add excitement to your life.

* Just imagine you are going to the most boring party on earth. As you arrive your partner whispers in your ear, Behave yourself tonight or I'll be warming that naughty little bottom of yours when we get home..
Instantly your mind is alert. Just how far can you push? You know you are being watched all the time. You flirt, you tease, always keeping one eye open. And then it happens, the whisper, Right Young man, that's enough. You'll be in the corner as soon as we get home. I want to see that naughty bottom of yours on display. And then you're going over my knee and I'm spanking you until you are one sorry young man.
The rest of the party passes in a blur of thrills and chills, terrified anticipation and shivery excitement. Definitely not dull.

* A simple shopping trip becomes a roller coaster of thrills. Do I buy it? Can I afford it? Will she find out?
* As you walk around the house, just seeing a hairbrush lying on the dresser or a wooden spoon in a kitchen drawer can bring a little tingle in the tummy, or a bit lower down. Your own home is more exciting than an amusement park.
And the best of all:

* A good spanking often leads to an extended session of rumpy-pumpy. And if you need me to tell you why that's a good thing, you are doing it wrong!
So, ladies and gentlemen, I rest my case.

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Miss Alice Kerr-Sutherland
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bottoms up
Mike

Westfield drawings

Time for your imagination to get back to work.
Just imagine that your wife is in the middle of spanking you when her friend calls. This is a friend who also spanks and she suggests that changing positions a few times during a spanking will help your wife enhance her dominance.

First place him over the back of the couch, so that you can use a paddle and tone your arm.

Then you could always have him crawl over to a footstool, while you encourage his efforts to get there.
Once there, do make it a worthwhile for both of you.
Lastly, maybe give him a little encouragement to keep his weight down!


Once done, the problem should be solved, so that the love making that follows is spectacular.

bottoms up
Mike