Thursday, December 06, 2018

The Dilemma

This photo just about says it all. The thoughts of spanking may be or for many definitely are erotic!
Unless the spanking is playful, while the spanking is occurring, all eroticism disappears.Fortunately for most, the eroticism quickly returns :-)
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Wednesday, December 05, 2018

Lynn's stress relief

Isn't this what many men want to see?
Thought I would start the day with a little humor.

Lynn's stress relief came yesterday, as she decided that it would be a good idea to spank me!

A scolding and then explanation of the reason, and then bare bottom over her knee while she used Miss Hurley to excellent effect.

Lynn many times uses Miss Hurley on only one cheek until she sees enough bright red to be happy, and possibly significant squirming on my part, before moving to the other cheek to administer the same type of spanking.Lynn then moved back and forth, staying for only a short while on one cheek before moving to the other.

Lynn had a wee pause, with me still over her knees for her to reset, and then a lot more spanks were given.When finished, Lynn was very relaxed, my bottom was on fire, and we made passionate love to each other.

Later that day, Lynn requested i show her my bottom, and was quite disappointed that the red had disappeared.
Shortly thereafter, she found another reason to administer a number of spanks, and was quite happy doing it.
Before dinner was done, another couple of spanks were administered for another reason. Lynn was definitely happy all evening, whereas my bottom was quite sore when trying to sleep. The old 'sleep on your stomach' was called for.

All in all, Lynn is now reasonably stress free, at least for the time being.

Spanking Lynn hadn't really relieved her stress, but spanking me certainly helped her mood!
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Tuesday, December 04, 2018

A shared experience

Rowdy has sent me an email to share with everyone. I appreciate all readers sending me, privately, emails of events that are written in detail for me to share with everyone. Short notes of events are great to add as comments

The advantages of sending emails to me are many.
First, it allows me to create an interesting posting that is quick and easy. Thus, I am able to post almost daily.
Secondly, some readers never look at comments, so the posting ensures that the story is read by everyone that might be interested.
Lastly, readers can see that the F/M practice has many features, and many benefits, and practiced by many couples.

Dear Mike,
Happy to oblige you. To make a long story short-

That afternoon John and I were happy as could be returning home with several good filets in our ice chest. I turned onto John's street and saw my wife's car in his driveway. At that moment, we looked at each other and realized that we had screwed up badly. After some years of friendship, we had gotten around to admitting to each other that we liked getting spanked by our wives. We often shared adventures, and had even shared stories with our spouses. We sort of knew we were in for a real treat this time.

We rushed into John's house. The tongue lashing began almost immediately. We stood there looking stupid with our heads down and shamefaced. Finally, Judy snapped, "Go unload the car while we decide what to do with you!"

Happy to get away, we unloaded the ice chest and John's supplies from my trunk. "I think we're gonna get whupped", John said quietly.

"I would bet on it," I replied. We finished unloading John's stuff and returned to the kitchen.

Our wives took us by the ear and escorted us to the family room where there were two large sofas. A hair brush had been placed on each sofa. The ladies sat down and made themselves comfortable. They ordered John and me to drop our trousers. They pulled us across their laps, then slid down our jockey shorts. They chatted amiably while administering a long, hard spanking to us. They commented frequently about how red and sore our butts appeared. We tried to take it manfully, but I have to admit, we yelped and howled quite a bit. When they finished, they had us stand in separate corners to think about our lack of consideration.
That was the first time I had ever been spanked with another couple present. Our ladies enjoyed it, and it gave us fodder for conversation for a long time to come. John and I got spanked together a few times after that.

Unhappily, he and his wife later split. He remarried and moved to another state. I assume that his new wife shares his spanking enthusiasm. but I have not yet discussed it with him.

Thanks for writing Rowdy. Any other readers willing to share would be greatly appreciated. (when they were spanked with other people present!)
Please note that spanking does not guarantee that a marriage will last, but it sometimes greatly helps a marriage.

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Sunday, December 02, 2018

a few drawings

A few drawings to interest you, I hope.
One can wonder what this woman has in mind to do with that switch?
Could she be planning to pay some overdue attention to her partner?Could she be planning to help the love making of her two best female friends?
OR could the above be a simple warm-up to the main event.
Hope you enjoyed the drawings.
On the home front, my bottom has been significantly warmed twice since the previous bad timing post, and all is well on the home front. We enjoyed a romantic lobster dinner tonight.

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Saturday, December 01, 2018

random thoughts

Why does Mr. Peanut have a cane????
Is this subliminal propaganda for a spanking lifestyle? (I borrowed this idea from Ms. Cassandra Park's blog) I hope the next one makes you laugh.... what interesting advertising exists if you live in places other than North America.
Is she really talking about chocolate? Or after the above, is she talking about the size of the brush she is going to spank you with/

Fortunately, I believe both Lynn and Miss AUDREY (The powerful woman below... a link to her site is in my link section) have a good sense of humorotherwise, this will be me !!!
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Friday, November 30, 2018

After a this how it is from october 2002

A site worth visiting is ourcastle, if you enjoy spanking fiction.
The two separate items here come from the site!  However, this site has been closed.
First is: and is titled: " After a spanking.........Is this how it is?"
Posted by Hallie on October 04, 2002 at 10:35:45:
"Why did you spank me?"
"Because I love you"
"How is that showing me you Love me?"
"Do you feel Loved?"
"Do you feel safe?"
"Did I scare you?"
"Other than making your bottom sore, Did I hurt you?"
"You came home from work looking for a fight, Didn't you?"
"Yes, I had a very bad day. Everything that could go wrong went wrong."
"What did you want to accomplish with fighting with me?"
"I wanted the release. I wanted to scream!"
"Did I make you scream?"
"Did you get the release you sought?"
"Are we angry with each other?"
"What would have happened if we would have fought?"
"We wouldn't be talking like this now."
"That's right. Would you have felt better if we would have fought instead?"
"Do you feel I abused you?"
"Some people would call that abuse."
"Yes, I suppose so."
"What would you call it?"
"Being cared for."
"I love you."
"I know, you showed me how much."
Some actual wisdom was in this little story, at least in my way of thinking.....
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Thursday, November 29, 2018

Fun Day

Thought I would simply take a little day of ease, and add some humor to life.The only thing needed with the above tee shirt is that I control the hairbrush also.
Sometimes, after I have been spanked, or other things have happened in our life, Lynn responds with the following. Lastly, some men like to be made to wear woman's panties, or voluntarily decide to do this with their partner's permission. I should talk a little bit more about this at some time (don't comment on the discussion yet please), but this cartoon I find to be hilarious.
An extra treat for Lisa: It will take me a little time to find the photos that you asked for, so this will have to suffice for the moment.
I recognize the ladies in the above photos, but somehow cannot find the website.

The site is
An excellent site worth visiting

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Wednesday, November 28, 2018


I thought I would just have a day of a few photos....Maybe you might suggest appropriate titles!

1. Performance review at the office... note the quality of the artwork done by the engineer
At home in the den, more items can be lite on fire than just in the fireplace.
Sometimes, you don't feel like having him over your knee, so the chair can still be very useful!
Annoyed in the kitchen? Deal with the situation immediately1
Another unique position is you want him to admire those new expensive shoes that you recently purchased!
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Tuesday, June 12, 2018

Not quite what I had in mind

Time for me to publicize another EXCELLENT F/M spanking blog!I remind everyone that my blog does not condone or ever discuss the spanking of children. My blog is for consensual spanking only between adults.
It will be quite possible that I will highlight another blog, and it, obviously, might not follow my rules! Please send me a short reference link to a specific posting on another blog I have suggested, if it deals with spanking children. If so, I would check it out, and then remove the blog from my links.

It is a free blogger world, so you can find every type of blog you desire. I choose to only publicize ones that avoid BDSM, and the spanking of children.Many of you know of Recidavist's blog. It is very easy to publicize your blog! If you have a blog, simply start leaving comments on similar blogs to yours, and readers that are interested by your comment will click on your blogger name for more details, and will then see more about you, and any blogs that you have. Voila, Mesdames et Messieurs. Instant exposure.What I like about Recidavist is that his initial desire with spanking was as the spanker, spanking his partner. "Not quite what I had in mind" relates how he is in a spanking relationship, but on the other side of the hairbrsuh than originally hoped. Like I have learned, you can learn to appreicate being spanked, and admitting you were wrong, insteaad of steadfastly expressing that you are always right.His blog is worth visiting.   However,this post is from may 17, 2009 and the blog is long gone

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Tuesday, June 05, 2018

What implement do you prefer?

In looking further at the The Alice Kerr-Sutherland Association yahoo group, they have a number of polls that appear somewhat different, and interesting.Many readers enjoy voting in a poll, so I thought I should start doing more polls again.
Obviously, everyone is imaginative, so if your favorite(whether to spank with or be spanked with) is not here, you could always add a comment about your personal favorite.

Spanking Implement

Which of the following instruments of correction is your personal preference:

Palm of hand
Spatula (a kichen implement)
bath brush

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Sunday, June 03, 2018

positions for the spankee from Hermione

Hermione has recently posted some excellent pictures about spanking positions. I have simply attached two drawings for your entertainment as well as the link.The easiest way to have you see these, if you have not already seen them, is to click on the following link

Hermione's positions for a spanking
(PS: she posted this is 2009)
On this one posting, Hermione has a link to her previous two postings, as this is part three of the postings.enjoy

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Friday, June 01, 2018

thought for the day

Ever so sweetly, your fate is determined...
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