Would you admit that you are spanked
The questions are:
1. Has anyone ever seen your bottom after it has been spanked, and seen traces or marks from the spanking?
2. If they have, and asked, "what happened to you?", would you respond that your partner has spanked you, and this is the result. Furthermore, I accept her right to spank me whenever she feels it is necessary. We are more in love than ever because she spanks me.
Evan said in a comment to a previous posting:
1. Quite possibly: The day we went to sandy Hook, I didn't see anyone I knew. I sunbathed with a white sun hat sort of concealing my face (covering the eyes).
In the changing room at the gym i have complied with her requirements and do not try to conceal either the submission shavings or the marks on my buttocks. I am never sure how obvious they still are after a day or two, I notice them but because I am looking. I also think that as the years go by it is less uncomfortable to display shaven genitals, since it is becoming very common, if anything it makes me part of the younger crowd since 20s and 30s seem to do it almost routinely not to please a dominant partner.
2. I have promised that if asked i will say that I was spanked and that she was right to do it because I deserved it. However, that has never happened. No-one ever asked.
My response:
1. I have been at the gym when spanking marks are still showing, but in the change room I try to stay in a corner so that no one sees while I change. I, however, do shower in the public area, and a hot shower re-ignites the reddness in my bottom, so it probably has been seen.
2. If asked, I would respond yes, depending on who asked.
A stranger while we are out of town, definitely yes.
A close friend, yes.
Someone I know in sports, but not a close friend, no.
I have changed. Writing this blog has helped, reading other people's blogs has helped, and personal advice from Aunt Kay has helped. I am no longer ashamed that I am spanked, and actually quite proud that I accept being spanked, such that I would probably say yes in most circumstances.
bottoms up
Mike
11 comments:
I have had this ultimate fantasy of being spanked in front of another woman. Even being spanked by another woman. My wife has no intersest in this at all. Butwe should not live all of our fantasies
Anon: pick a fictitious name, to sign this comment. It will liberte you, because then what you add to the conversation, will be linked by peopole towhat you have stated before.
Be thankful that your wife is willing to spank you, and whatever she decides is what happens. Many husbands cannot convince their wife to spank them. You are very lucky.
Mike
I'm spanked by my wife, it was a strong desire of mine, and my wife agreed, not to fulfill my desire, but to improve my attitude. Prior to our marriage we both agreed the spankings would continue and I agreed it was her way. I mostly get spanking in private, a couple of her best friends know I'm spanked, only one of my friends knows, but then again he is spanked by his wife. The only person to have seen me after a spanking and the same person to have witness me being spanked in my mother-in-law. When she was visiting, I was taken to the bedroom and soundly spanked, I was then taken to the front room just in my underpants to face the wall, my wife lowered my underpants to show her mother how red my bottom was. As to being a witness to a spanking, once again she was visiting, and has I was being taken to the bedroom, she said why not here in the front room. My wife took me back to the front room, bare my bottom and scolded me longer than normal. Being spanked in front of another and especially my mother-in-law was the worse, my wife really gave me a spanking that had me kicking, squirming, pleading and begging. I faced the wall to display my bottom and my mother-in-law approved. Her next visit she gave my wife a very large hairbrush, I have since felt it. Jack
Jennifer, I just caught my husband looking at your blog, have caught him a few times, so don't know how often when I'm not home he is looking at this. He is spanked and so surprised me he was here, hates to be spanked, but he agreed and I decide. To answer your question as to being seen and others knowing, yes to both, part of his punishment. Having been spanked in front of others, a couple of times, my best friend who spanks her husband and my mother. Having been seen facing the wall, many people, who ever drops in, part of his punishment. As for now, I'm so mad, responding to cool myself down. He is naked, the pervert was playing with himself, did not finish. He will be heard, I've just told me to finish what he started and handed him a towel. I hope this answers your questions. Love, you damn well bet I love him, I would not put up with some of the things he does and would not resort to spanking him if I did not love him. Love takes many forms and spankings is one such form, no matter how much he protest, complain and hurting afterwards. He knows I love him.
Jack: obviously, your wife wanted to impress her mother that she knew how to give a real spanking. Best you behave better, specially when MIL is coming for a visit.
Jennifer: great answers, thank you. He definitely has a wonderful wife.
bottoms up
Red/Mike
Jennifer, my mother was right Men are just little boys in adults bodies and naughty little boys at time. I wish you could have seen him complain and beg as he finished playing with himself. Did learn one thing that spanking really got his attention. He spent longer facing the wall. He said he would not look at porn again, I know better, so he will be preforming for me again and I so look forward to it.
Jennifer: human nature at work! Spankings help make a better, happier, and more accountable relationship
bottoms up
Red/Mike
Dave, my desire, want to be spanked was so strong, that when I found the woman who understood, others knowing was just a part that I accepted. It is a part of the spanking, my trouble sitting is a sure give away. My wife has spanked me in front of her best friend a couple of times. She also reminds me a naked man is not a turn on for women, a man being spanked is. If asked if I just got a spanking by the way I was acting, I admit I have. Where I work I have a female supervisor, she figured it out quickly, not a good thing, a couple of times she has informed my wife of certain things I have done at work. Coming to work the next day she knows the problem was addressed. You give and take and accept this.
Becky, my background on my mother's side is Irish. Growing up my mother ran the house and at times my Dad. My husband is a little lazy, has a good paying job, and a lot of good traits. Was a two year dating for us. I think it was a couple of months into our marriage he did something stupid, I let it pass and then a few months later he did it again. I got mad, he joked that my Irish was coming out, he said the wrong thing. With a very stern voice I said your getting a spanking and best bare that bottom of yours. He looked at me, want help and soon he did as told. That first spanking got his attention, and later that day my best friend visiting notice something different about him. I just said I spanked him, told her why and when he walked in, he knew. So from this woman point of view, spanking your husband is only part of the punishment, letting others know that his behavior will be addressed. He has stated he will not be spanked in front of others, I just smile and said to be on your best behavior.
My wife has found spankings get my attention. For the past couple of years I have lost count of the times I have been across her lap. This I understand, accept and believe strongly in, my wife is in charge, it is I who is over her lap. Yes I have been seen after a spanking displaying a very red bottom, part of punishment. I have been heard, cannot help it. She believes in addressing the problem at that time, on vacation, was given a spanking in our room, afterwards I knew by the looks I got from the other guest they knew. On a couple of occasions she was scolding me, one time I was just out of the shower, and a friend who just walks in, saw me standing there, she said nothing, sat down and my wife continue the scolding and then gave me a very sound spanking, I really put on a show. When she stood me up, I could care less what I was exposing, I danced around the room, rubbing. I faced the wall and the two talked and then I learned her friend spanks her husband. As a male, what ever my wife decides when it comes to a spanking and if seen or not, I do as told. Joseph
Dave: you must always remember: be careful what you wish for, you might just get it. Seems true in this case, but I mm certain you are mostly happy with the arrangement.
Becky: delightful to read, that you address problems, so that they disappear. If you want to misbehave in front of guests, then you get spanked in front of guests.
Joseph: glad spanking works for both of you
bottoms up
Red
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